He can't respec those if they are Autotrain points. At level 44 you should have 11 points in slash and thrust. SO dont worry abotu trying to respec, because it wont actually LET you respec unless you put those points in yourself At level 48 you will have 12 in thrust.
As for your end spec, irrespective of HOW you go, whether polearm or 2h, you will want to go to 50 in that respective specline. A number of arms go to 42 in shield for slam, so your end spec will look something like this
Weapon - 39
2H or Pole- 50
Shield 42
Rest wherever.
You will miss a good deal if you dont put those points into your 2h or pole, and seeing as you have started 2h you might as well go the whole hog. So you should have
502h
39 slash
and then if you want slam (9s stun) put the points into shield. If you DONT, you should still put at LEAST 7 points into shield to get engage in case of archers...
Hope that helps.
Edited, Jun 9th 2006 at 11:38am EST by haied