Ok this thread isnt to ***** about losing an item because i was already planning on having the item stolen just incase it happened, Altho when you have known someone for a Very long time you would expect they have the common cortesy as to not ***** you over, but there's always that chance that it happen's. Anyway A long time friend of mine by the name of neeko was doing shouts for awhile in whitegate for a SH she needed gil which i knew for awhile, i relized i had a SH that i wasnt using atm and didnt plan to use for awhile Altho this SH was synthed few days prior by a friend of mine named stratocaster... This was his first harness that he had ever made so it deffinitly felt good to have one sighned by a friend, I decided since neeko needed one i would loan it to her, i even told her that i was willing to let her /him use whenever he/she wanted to that it wasnt an issue as long as i could get it when i needed it then i would reloan out again, I trust people till they ***** me over anyway it was just a harness, altho it was sighned by friend i decided to let other friend use, Well few days went by i decided that i wanted to use my SH so i asked and got no response so i waited awhile 5-10 minutes maybe they were afk, then asked again nothing so im wondering why im being ignored when i see that shes on my friendslist....i said i know your on its showing just let me use my harness and you can use again afterwords, Still no response so i start getting aggrivated i mentioned 4-5 times that i dont want to report i HATE dealing with GM's they dont care everyone knows this. But i figured since this was a sighned harness and the ONLY one ever made that they may be able to do something well, No luck yet last night i relized neeko was in bastok mines putting the SH up for sale to remove the name and rebuy go figure ... that was expected put up for 10k rebuy then there's no proof well, since i have time date and location it was put on that will deffinitly be in favor to me there's a GM investigation going on now as i speak, Regardless i have another harness thats sighned weather i get the other back or not i dont care, This thread solom purpose is to beware of Neeko with items, if you dont care to get back then go for it but otherwise, Never lend your stuff out even to close friends, AND IF YOU DO Always take time, date, and location of where the trade and agreement took place that way you will be able to recover your item. (If you need any help ingame or want to talk or whatever PM as carvo) (dont write in this thread to tell me about being stupid for loaning it out i already know and dont want to hear it otherwise good day all.)