I thought it was kinda funny, exspecially how hard up kramer has been as of late for whm's. lol..
If you want a social full of nice guys, sleeplesknights is one i recomend, send me a tell or dann our fearless leader. were all levels and ranges, just kinda do stuff on our own time and have fun. (even if i've neglected it somewhat lately)
If your looking for HNM/SEA/SKY etc ls.
you have DVS3, UC, Yellowcakes, nanoforce, extreme, soulfire, HoDC, yes and even wasp.
I know DVS is full of nice friendly people as well, and US i hear is nice to, as a i have a few friends in there as well. as for the rest, well I don't know much about them so can't say alot, good nor bad. (atleast not without starting a flame war).
Most of those hnm/sky/sea ls have web pages. if you'd like, www.dvsffxi.com is DVS's
Good luck in finding a new home.