if your bord at 30, just quit, seriously, it only gets worse. after after 55it takes 10k per level, everything becomes a tedious headache getting af, and once you get to merit you spend hours in a pt that if good, gets 10k+ and hour which is one merit per hour, and it never gets exciting...just...yeah when your not dieing or dead, the most fun you can have is staying alive and watching your logs to see how much dmg you did on you last ws so you can brag to your ls about it. and hnm is not treat, spending hours camping a nm sometimes just to lose it to rmt and you get nothing in return, 3-4hours in dynamis where you can expect to die at least twice, and you might get to lot on your af2, whoopy.
changing your race wont nessarly make the game more enjoyable
neather will "grinding out" to 75
you havent even started playing the game at 30, and it only gets more time consuming with less in return...
the whole end game thing is about equipment, getting better equipment so you can better serve your hnm
the quest are cool and missions can be good times though, if you have the help to do them. good story lines at least, i'm going to regret never fineshing any of them, especially cop...thats about all there is to look forward to