I would hold off on any DEX gear purchase until you have actually purchased EQ and at least AM2. At 52 that is still a fair distance away. I would advise STA/HP as your major focus.
In addition to some of the suggestions above, I would recommend (from memory, so forgive spelling inaccuracies; please also note to check level restrictions and overall effect by testing with a Magelo profile):
ARMS: Fiery Mephit Hide Sleeves/Light Chain Vambraces of Deceit/Hardened Grey Flesh Sleeves
HANDS: Kylong Darkmetal Gauntlets/Coldain Skin Gloves
HEAD: Slime Covered Rubicite Chain Coif
FACE: Face Mask of Frozen Mana, Mask of Flourishing Fungus, Dark Metal Visor
EARS: Blood Metal Earring of Engagement/Blood Earring of Rage (for the long term DEX investment)
NECK: get 2 friends and do the 4th Qeynos Badge; get 6 friends (average level 60) and get the 5th.
WRISTS: Bracelet of Fortitude/Silver Chitin Wristband
BELT: Belt of the Great Turtle/Shai Din Assassin Belt (for DEX)
FEET: Kingly Boots of Splendour/Barbed Dragonscale Boots
LEGS: Links of Hardened Clay/Tae Ew Legs
SHOULDERS: Dragonwing Mantles/Barbed Dragonscale Pauldrons
Yes, you are going to lose STR with these suggestions but you will gain survivability. However your STR will basically stay static when you ding Storm Strength next level.
Not sure of what the prices are likes for the items I have suggested on your server. Some like the Barbed Dragonscale Boots have dropped considerably on Bertox. Rather than spend plat, why not convince your friends to XP in Veksar? The Kylong Darkmetal Armour drops would be significant upgrades for almost all your slots and would not cost a plat!
Alfhild Balebane
Bertox