Hello.
I recently returned from a 2 year break and have been trying to gear up according to current standards.
It was actually a bit depressing since the first thing I did was get sparks gear which made about 80% of my old gear (Some that took a lot of effort to get) obsolete.
Next thing I did was to go to Abyssea and get the majority of my gear to i109.
Now comes the problem, I tried UCNMs, but even on my BST the majority of them are too difficult, so no access to that content.
Then I tried Alluvion Skirmish, which also proved to be too tough to solo. Granted I only tried a few times, Rala VVV and Rala IV IV IV and got owned by the NM both times.
I have an 8 month old, so getting groups is a bad idea, since I have to randomly afk all the time, and I'm finding that the majority of new content is not solo friendly, so I'm feeling stuck and frustrated.
I was wondering if anyone here with more experience in the game could advise me on content that's accessible to someone like me who doesn't have large chunks of uninterrupted game play and basically hates asking others for help.
Thank you for your help!