Hey Az, in the options menu there is something about your toon acting out what you type (can't quite remember what it is called exactly), the easy way to find out if it is on is to type 'lol' and see if your toon does laugh. I think you will need this activated to act out your emotes when using the /emote command. As for the exact command for giving someone the bird, i don't know what that would be, sorry, but you could try '/emote <your toons name> make an obscene gesture' at a guess.
On a side note, last night i saw some guy in ME with the name 'TakeItUpTheAss' :o.
P.S. cool i just noticed i've got a yellow name now :D.
Edited, Jul 11th 2007 6:52am by OrderSixtysix