Yeah...so...I have this problem.
I have way too many characters on this game, and FFXI, and I wish I had time for both of them. But I don't. So I continually bounce back and forth between the two.
But I think I have found a solution, as I type this post of lamentations.
LOTRO is pretty much dead during the daytime on weekdays.
FFXI is full of insane powerleveling japanese groups during the day.
At night, LOTRO gets more interesting, and groups are easier to find.
At night, FFXI becomes the game I ran away from when I first discovered LOTRO.
So yeah, maybe i can just play FFXI during the day, and LOTRO at night.
I don't have a problem. At least I don't have to admit it.