I'm glad that you made the decision to move. After a while the situation starts to eat you from the inside. With your goals not being the same I'm suprised it wasn't before you both got a house. It took one huge situation and an assault on me to make me dump the guy I was with. I still miss him at times but, once he hits you he will again. Now it may take a bit for you to realize that your freedom will make you happier and perhaps Mr. Right will show up.