Well, the lame internet kind. I'll try to keep this somewhat brief - this is all online (FFXIV). My girlfriend recently told me she kisses her close female friend, and I've been all bent out of shape over it. Having experianced a girl leave me for a girl, a girl cheat on me with another girl.. It's now a sensitive issue.
Anyway, the three of us talked it out tonight. Eventually I compromised, saying fine to kisses on the cheek. Later on after I had PL'd them for a little bit, my girlfriend had her kiss me.. Including her friend asking if it's on the cheek, and my girlfriend saying "cheek no, kiss." So after the ã¡ã‚… (kiss), here I am, some kind of confused. I didn't want it, at least the way it went down.
So. What the hell should I be thinking? What would you do? Part of me thinks I'm blowing it out of proportion and I should just go with it, another thinks I should just call off the relationship and move on to someone who better fits me. Go ahead and laugh, poke fun, I deserve it..
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I'd get a real girlfriend and stop ************ to polygons.
Arrange a threesome.
Also, around here everyone does cheek-kissing. I don't want people's parents kissing me on the cheek, but it's customary. No more, no less. Some people still do it to flirt, but that's just weird and creepy in my experience.
Also, around here everyone does cheek-kissing. I don't want people's parents kissing me on the cheek, but it's customary. No more, no less. Some people still do it to flirt, but that's just weird and creepy in my experience.
George Carlin wrote:
I think it’s the duty of the comedian to find out where the line is drawn and cross it deliberately.
I've kissed girls. My husband has kissed boys. However, after we got married, we instituted a "look but don't touch" policy, and that extends to anything more than friendly polite kisses on the cheek to everyone not related to us regardless of gender.
If she and you are unable to find an agreement of where the boundary is, then yeah, it might be better to move along. I don't think you're overreacting - if her actions make you uncomfortable, then you're within your rights to say that it does.
If she and you are unable to find an agreement of where the boundary is, then yeah, it might be better to move along. I don't think you're overreacting - if her actions make you uncomfortable, then you're within your rights to say that it does.
Kalivha wrote:
Also, around here everyone does cheek-kissing. I don't want people's parents kissing me on the cheek, but it's customary. No more, no less. Some people still do it to flirt, but that's just weird and creepy in my experience.
That's why I eventually said fine to it, but unfortunately that designation seemed to get thrown out the window here.
Thanks, catwho. Helps to hear something besides your own logic sometimes, even if it's about the same.
Edited, May 7th 2011 5:55pm by Coyohma
Kalivha wrote:
Arrange a threesome.
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Later on after I had PL'd them for a little bit,
You know she is really a man, right ? I mean don't get me wrong, the OoT is chocked full of gays. I just wanted to make sure you knew which team you were playing for.
Rule of the internet: If you haven't met them in person, assume they're not what they say they are.
Also, arrange a threesome.
Also, arrange a threesome.
Dear people I don't like: 凸(â—´―｀â—)凸
Wait... all of this is online? You're getting offended from a girl /kiss'ing another girl?
Most of all... you still play FFXIV?
Jesus man, get some therapy. You have major problems.
Edit: And these problems could be solved by arranging a threesome. IRL. Not in that horrible excuse for a game.
Edited, May 7th 2011 6:56pm by LockeColeMA
Most of all... you still play FFXIV?
Jesus man, get some therapy. You have major problems.
Edit: And these problems could be solved by arranging a threesome. IRL. Not in that horrible excuse for a game.
Edited, May 7th 2011 6:56pm by LockeColeMA
Also, you're missing a ㆠfrom kiss.
Dear people I don't like: 凸(â—´―｀â—)凸
Kisses between girls can be perfectly innocent acts. I think you're focusing too much on the fact that they are kissing and need to be focusing more on the details of the kiss. For example where are these kisses occurring? If they're in a public place like the kitchen for all to see, then I don't think you have much of a problem. But if here friend is forcing your girlfriend to leave the kitchen, then you have an issue. Does her friend seem to be trying to steal your gf away from you? For example, if your gf is in the ktichen making you a sammich, and her friend comes a long to kiss her, that is obviously going to draw attention away from having your sammich made.
As long as your gf is in the kitchen, making you a sammich, then I don't think you have a problem.
As long as your gf is in the kitchen, making you a sammich, then I don't think you have a problem.
Arrange a headbutt.
Allegory wrote:
Kisses between girls can be perfectly innocent acts. I think you're focusing too much on the fact that they are kissing and need to be focusing more on the details of the kiss. For example where are these kisses occurring? If they're in a public place like the kitchen for all to see, then I don't think you have much of a problem. But if here friend is forcing your girlfriend to leave the kitchen, then you have an issue. Does her friend seem to be trying to steal your gf away from you? For example, if your gf is in the ktichen making you a sammich, and her friend comes a long to kiss her, that is obviously going to draw attention away from having your sammich made.
As long as your gf is in the kitchen, making you a sammich, then I don't think you have a problem.
As long as your gf is in the kitchen, making you a sammich, then I don't think you have a problem.
Srsly, nothing makes a sandwich taste better than a little lesbianism.
Kirby the Eccentric wrote:
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Or
Skype threesome.
Not to be harsh, but sounds like she's a bit attention starved, and will probably get it from anywhere she can, regardless of her relationship status.
How long have you two been together? If it hasn't been long might wanna think it over before any permanent location changes. Of course, BT moved out here about a month after we got together, but that's because we're ******* awesome humans that win at life and don't make out with other people's avatars.
How long have you two been together? If it hasn't been long might wanna think it over before any permanent location changes. Of course, BT moved out here about a month after we got together, but that's because we're ******* awesome humans that win at life and don't make out with other people's avatars.
Wait, is this her kissing her RL friends or her online friends?
I'm all for flying your freak flag, but that's just weird.
I'm all for flying your freak flag, but that's just weird.
You should break it off with her, no one, not even girls, should kiss girls. They're just icky.
Sweetums wrote:
Wait, is this her kissing her RL friends or her online friends?
I'm all for flying your freak flag, but that's just weird.
I'm all for flying your freak flag, but that's just weird.
His in game girlfriend is kissing another in game female character rather than his in game male character. This is serious business.
Can't sleep, clown will eat me.
No one should forbid online RPing with random people, anyway.
I mean, it's not that hard to distinguish between that and actual relationships, and it allows people to at least somewhat live out the stuff they can't in their real relationship.
Oh wait--
I mean, it's not that hard to distinguish between that and actual relationships, and it allows people to at least somewhat live out the stuff they can't in their real relationship.
Oh wait--
Actually, drama like this is why I said no to online relationships back in 1999.
For every love story like mentioned in this thread, there's 10 cases of absolute heartbreak, and at least one of those ten is going to end with someone attempting or even succeeding at suicide because they found out their girlfriend is another guy, or their boyfriend is actually a 55 year old grandfather.
Edited, May 7th 2011 9:41pm by catwho
For every love story like mentioned in this thread, there's 10 cases of absolute heartbreak, and at least one of those ten is going to end with someone attempting or even succeeding at suicide because they found out their girlfriend is another guy, or their boyfriend is actually a 55 year old grandfather.
Edited, May 7th 2011 9:41pm by catwho
Meh, the only relationship I've had that ended in a suicide attempt was the only one I've had that wasn't sort of online (I met a lot of people at parties and such who happened to be in my usual IRC channel, too, and he wasn't one of them).
I've had one seriously bad online relationship, but I knew what I was getting myself into.
I've had one seriously bad online relationship, but I knew what I was getting myself into.
Kalivha wrote:
I've had one seriously bad online relationship, but I knew what I was getting myself into.
Wait.. so this was all done in an MMO roleplaying sense or she was actually in the room with you?
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