Question to the hetero/homosexuals on here.Follow

Never really thought about it deeply, just went with instincts.

I'm both. I'm attracted to males and men. But I don't like my men super masculine or super feminine.

I also have a thing for androgynous faces, but don't really like androgynous bodies, so I rarely find those guys attractive in a physical way.

I don't believe that you haven't.

Gender has nothing to do with it for me. I have been in love with males and females. My first love was a female, my high school sweetheart. It depends on what kind of attachments I form with that person. After my first love moved away, I got involved with a MtF and that was one of the most fun relationships I have had. We didn't love each other but we enjoyed each others company and had a lot in common. Being in a relationship with someone doesn't always mean love. I have had relationships where I wasn't even sure I liked the person, but was attracted to them in one way or another.

I have never been attracted to one specific gender so I am not sure I qualify when answering your questions, but I have had more lasting relationships with females than males if that is indicative of anything.

Edited, Jun 27th 2011 3:21am by Delva

See I'm the different, I love androgynous bodies as well. Works with women, too.

]Pretty much this.

Surprisingly enough (to some, damn you Asylumites ) I'm straight heterosexual when it comes to sexual preferences. I've never felt sexually attracted to men; I have found men "attractive" in that someone with a great body will make me stop and go "oh wow." But it's more in a "I respect the fact that you're gorgeous" than "I woulds totally taps dat." And I would argue my attraction to females is based on sex more than gender. I've found tomboys as attractive as girlie girls. I used to hang out with a girl in college, and I would have hooked up with her in a minute... except she was an androgynous-looking lesbian Several girls I've dated have been bisexual, or at least had sexual experiences with other girls. Haven't dated anyone who's become a lesbian though (have a friend who did that; we still give him flak for "turning her on to women.")

So basically, I'm a stereotypical guy, for better or worse

I know a gay guy who has the magical power of turning everyone he dates into women. I think three of the people he's been with transitioned after they dated him.

For me? Sex, or at least apparent sex. Hypothetical situations aside, I'm attracted to the physical form of women. Actually, I'm rather uncomfortable with someone who is too 'feminine' as a partner, but I don't find the male form attractive.

With that said, something along the lines of this question was a popular topic here after a recent Thai talent show. The participants were good looking and had the proper distribution of jiggly bits. I don't see a reason to rush to Thailand to meet them, nor do I think I'd flee in terror if I found myself having a drink with them. To my mind (not having been in a situation where it mattered) a person who has gone to that much effort to change their body has earned my respect for their effort. If one of those young 'ladies' were to hit on me, I'd like to think that I'd give them as the same evaluation as any other attractive, young lady.

I haven't found myself interested in the physical form of men, but perhaps that speaks more loudly to the kind of people I meet than it does to any rigid vision of sexuality. I don't know any significant sample of men who dress as women or pre/post op transsexuals and since I doubt that old, bald guys are particularly high on their list of hot dates I'd guess it is a moot question.

Slender hands go further easier.

Also something about red hair and a slender body with some china doll skin and large tits presses about every button I have.



Edited, Jun 27th 2011 10:46am by Tarub

Vaginas scare me, too, I'm attracted to girls anyway. I just don't want someone to expect me to have a very high awareness of their private parts. With guys, I'm not required to be as good as a guy. It takes some pressure off.

Yeah.

In cartoonland varus, alma and gbaji don't exist.

You tell me which is the better life.

gbaji


varus


Alma is kind of a mix between the two.

Edited, Jun 27th 2011 3:54pm by lolgaxe