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Last night, my husband and I sat down and talked for a couple of hours. We have both come to the conclusion that it is best for me to leave. I am moving out Friday morning when I get off work. My brother said I could go stay with him until I found a place of my own. I know it is the right thing to do, but it hurts so damn bad. We are both different people now and we want different things out of the relationship. Things neither of us can fulfill for the other. I am so scared. We have been together so long, I don't know how to live without him. I guess I will just have to find out how.

Well, it's hard to see an immediate bright side to that situation. Best of luck to you and it's good that you have family to help support you.

Be strong, Delva. Doing what's best is often not the easiest thing, I wish you luck!

I really don't want to be a ****, but this is coming off as some sort of abbay-esque pre scripted plot.

And now she can hook up with that internet dude she met at Denny's.

It was a hard decision that you had to make, Delva, but it looks like you and your husband both approached it with a level of civility and maturity that was needed for the 2 of you but disappointed =28 with the lack of Jerry Springeresque-drama.

This is never an easy situation, but sometimes it is absolutely necessary. You're going to be fine, just look forward to being independent for a little while and starting a new life. Change can be good!

May your old life slip away quietly and your new life come sweetly.

Edited, Jul 21st 2011 12:09pm by Aripyanfar

Ah, I forgot that was Delva. My newsletter must be bundled with my copy of PC Gamer.

Does this mean we won't get any more Delva drama threads?

Damn.

Sorry to hear that Delva. D: At least you both managed to have an actual conversation about things, instead of the decision being made in an actual fight. That's going to make the whole process easier (though it's still going to suck a lot).

Hope you can get everything on track soon.

Best of luck Delva!

Without getting to far into history here, there was a ratebot incident earlyish on that account that leads me to believe that this is the real primary account at least. An Abbay / Oxid scripted incident isn't outside the realm of possibility, but in my experiance we would have seen inconsistancies by now unless the entire thing was pre-written. I like to think that very few people would go to that much effort, and that the historical results of such incidents such as abbay / oxid would deter that from occuring. On account of the bodies and heads mounted on poles.



Do you have any idea how hard it is to write a document about all the active posters in even a section of the forum? The forum predictions gets bigger every year, and i nearly go insane trying to not miss anyone, and then inevitably I always do. and thats just me making **** up! Good luck though, I hope you can make one work.