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From: Kaolian [ Add to Address Book | Add to Ignore List | Report This PM as Spam/Abuse ]
To: Jella
Sent: Oct 20, 2007 @ 5:08 PM CST
Read: Oct 21, 2007 @ 4:51 AM CST
Subject: Remove your Avatar immidiatly
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Pedobear? @#%^ no. Remove it now or you are banned.
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There was nothing "pedo" about my avatar. It was a flasher bear which I came across in the humor section of an avatar site. I don't find it anymore "pedo" than Conan's ************ Bear. However, in retrospect, I can see how it would require a weird sense of humour to find amusing, and having said that, I wouldn't use it again. Certainly wouldn't use something I, or anyone else for that matter, considered "pedo" in any way. Like I said earlier, I don't disagree with the request. Only the way it was put.
I've been a member on the forums for 2 years without any previous conflict with the staff. I am used to seeing all kinds of trash talk in forum posts, and frequently lose my temper in them myself. But person-to-person communication is different by definition.
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Hi Jella,
your avatar comes across as being rather offensive to me and I would like you to remove it as soon as you see this message. I appreciate your cooperation.
That would get the job done just as well, with no loss of respect towards the author. There's no need to cuss or throw one's weight around.