I have a suggestion.
I've come to terms with the idea that there is a majority of OOT'rs who need to post in the Asylum. They outnumber the current denizens of the Asylum population. Of course, they are being met with opposition on either side and I'm afraid you are going to lose more than a few loyal paying customers over the situation.
I suggest mentioning to the current Asylumites who refuse to conform to make a locked forum in a journal. That way there is less opposition to the merge and things will go alot smoother. The OOT can go back to "what's on your MP3 player" topics, and the Asylum population (Asylum regs and OOT converts)who stay can find a balance that works.
This works on several different levels.
1. Demea type fighting back will be squashed
2. Rate happy trigger fingers can save their sense of propriety by having their own forum/journal to post in.
3. The Asylum can be freed to have yet another reformation of purpose/use/players.
It's just a suggestion but in my opinion it would help.
Thanks,
Katie