It's kinda sad that due to heresay and gossip, not fact, that there are stigmas placed onto people. I know Xrocko, and I am proud to count myself as a friend of his. But regardless of this, your orb your drops means precisely that. Not your orb your drops UNLESS something of value drops, especially when the person who gets the drop has a use for it. I have read the forums here for a long time and read one a long time ago about someone, and as such was very wary of that person. He became a very close friend of mine and I feel awful that I believed the post about him to start with.
If someone does the BCNM time and again to get a drop that they want, why should they then give that drop up for others. As for Dreamie, I have only met her once, and don't know her at all, but she wasn't there, and as such should be kept out of it.