Oh where do I start???
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However, the nicest person you will meet will still have to wait to exp. That mnk who got you af's, genkai's and 5-1 will no doubt spend or has spent numerous hours lfg.
/em raises hand. Went 3 days of solid LFG (while crafting/farming to fill my time) without a single invite. I know people who have went longer and I sympathize.
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I find the people that gripe about having their flags up for a long time are the same people that are afraid of having the leader status put on them.
Not always the case. I actively /sea inv all while LFG to see that the key roles are available (RDM or BRD, PLD, WHM or SMN/WHM). I don't invite the DDs until I have the key roles in place because so many times I've had 5 waiting for the WHM, or the RDM to pop up. I'm not going to waste everyone else's time. I have been the leader of MANY parties, but the necessaries are not always there; LFG or not.
I have had 4 pts in the last week (and I'm LFG every day), I've went from 3k from 57, to 5k from 57, to 6k from 57, and finally back to 2k from 57. In about 8 hours of PTing last night I gained 4k exp total only to have the PT disband 2k from my level. (I had a couple different PTs) For those that say it's "ok" to LFG all the time, I say try being a MNK or a DRG. It's disgusting to know that the reason you don't get invites has nothing to do with you, it's because people don't understand your job. (That's a whole other rant ><)
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the quicker, i feel, that some players understand that Vana'diel isn't just a 'game', the quicker they will realize how to accept and enjoy what enjoyment this 'game' will bring them.
Even though you've contradicted yourself, I understand your point. Yet I still disagree. It's a Game + yes, but still a game. You will not become successful IRL because you made 2 mil on AH, you will not be an Olympic Archer because you leveled RNG to 75, I'm not going to be a Kung-Fu master because I'm leveling MNK (even though I do study Kung-Fu :-b). Thus therefore, it is a game.
At the end of the day, you turn your PC or PS2 off and the game ends (albeit temporarily). Yes the game goes on whether you are logged on or not, but at any time you can cancel your account, and you won't die. You might convulse from withdraws after a couple days, but you should live. When the game is no longer enjoyable, you move on.
The sad fact is I'm even getting to that point because I can't do what I enjoy on this game because I'm bound to a misunderstanding. I have leveled other jobs, and continue to do so, but my first love, job-wise, is my Monk. I'm 22k from my Temple Cyclas and can't get there to save my life. How crappy is that?
I want to help others in my LS but I have to leave my flag up non-stop to have a chance at a pt. So if I pt with them to get them G1 items, or kill a NM for them, I'm not shown as available and NOBODY is going to /sea MNK all unless they want a skeleton killed. Call it whining or bit*(&g or whatever you want, but it's usually the WHM, PLD, or RDM that get invites when they're not LFG that say "be patient". Not a direct shot at you, Enthuz, but honestly, level your DRG some more and set EASILY obtainable goals just to fail because you can't either form a pt (due to lack of available essential jobs), or get a single invite for days/weeks on end. It quickly begins to feel like a waste of life.
You then get the decision of sticking it through, knowing how much it's going to take to get where you want, or cutting your losses and leaving your on-line friends behind. I currently have about 1600 hours invested in this game and am starting to wonder why. Granted I've made a lot of friends, so that helps, but some things are just ridiculous.
By no means am I saying "SE fix it" like so many do. I'm saying players, wake up. If you are the type that builds pts and has no problems getting parties when you don't, try inviting a MNK and a DRG. You might be surprised. MNK,DRG,PLD,BRD,BLM,WHM can make for a pretty good pt. Backhand Blow -> Penta Thrust -> Stone III can do some pretty good damage. Replace Stone III with Quake and you have even more. Heck it will probably even top Distortion -> Freeze since crabs are strong to water (Distortion = Water/Ice). I know a pt that I was in where the BLM was bursting Stone III for 450+ dmg. I even had a RNG tell me he was checking DMG output and I was keeping up with him, and topping him when my kicks went off. Granted I don't have Barrage, and Sidewinder, but look at some other aspects.
With DoT you can put out more damage and not put the extra stress on your tank. With haste I'm doing close to 2 sets of attacks per one of a DRK or RNG. Couple that with the fact that I can do 5 attacks at one time (Double Attack + Kick Attacks) for 30-60 dmg per hit, then we can add up the DMG output. So by doing 30-60 per hit x 2-5 hits vs 150 per hit, I don't have that one big dmg shot that makes the mob turn on me. Yes, I have taken hate on many occasions, but I don't have to put "{Cover} me" in my macro if it happens. As a MNK I have more VIT than any other job I do believe (pre buffs and gear). That RNG gets 2 or 3 hits before they are in red.
What if the RNG runs out of arrows???? Now what? Stab it with your knife? Good luck. You might as well have the WHM break out the Blessed Hammer. RNG is an insanely expensive job. Not all RNGs are going to bring 5-8 hours worth of arrows. And if they're RNG/NIN, add on some Shihei costs. Don't get me wrong, I love having RNGs in the pt, but there ARE other DD jobs out there. Some will do comparable damage. Sidewinder is FAR from a guaranteed hit.
Ok, I've griped enough. There's my 2 dollars worth.