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#1 Jul 13 2005 at 1:07 PM Rating: Decent
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Ok, this just happened last night. I was in ssandy after just getting my whm back to 15(got the last 42 xp from killing JEJ, no drop), anyway, the ah wasnt working for some ppl so they couldnt get there crystals to craft. I buy a person a stack of dark crystals, give it to them for free, buy a stack of wind crystals, give it to another person for free. the person that i gave the wind crystals to needed a stack of fire crystals, so she asks me if she can buy them from me this time. So i buy the fire crystals and check the price for a single crystals(300-400)
so i but them in bazaar for 200. she buys them, storys over, or so i thought.

She thens asks me if i do any crafting. i tell her yea, leathercrafting, only lvl 19 though, too expensive.

She says here, check this out, and wishes to trade with me, so im like, ok whatever. She first starts off putting 1 mill in trade box, and im like "Wow, nice", she just says wait theres more. It goes from 1 mil to 2 mil, *drool*, and yet again she says wait theres more, it goes up to 3 mill, *jealous*, one more time she says wait theres even more, and it goes up to 3.5??mil,
Im sitting there thinking "rrr, another person showing of there gil >.<", she then cancels the trade, and wishes to trade again, and says here have this, and make sure you sell it for the right price. so im like maybe something she was crafting, then i cheer up cause she told me earlier she needed crystals for goldsmithing^^.

I wasnt expecting what i got next, a stack of mythril sheets +
a stack of mythril ingots O.O *heart attack*!!!!!!
Im like "WOW, thank you so much, but you really dont have to do this" she says "you saw how much oney i had, i can spare it, and your getting it for actually being helpful."
again im like "WOW, thank you!!!!" and she says "Just remember to sell them for what the worth, cant stress that enough", im like "I Luv you, dont worry i will, and even though i sound like a broken record, THANK YOU" followed by a /em hugs <t>. she then goes off in search of a tele dem, reward 2k. and i warp to jeuno to sell some other stuff i had.

Point of this post is, is it right to accept such a reward when you really didnt do that much. And how many ppl have had something like this happen to you?
#2 Jul 13 2005 at 1:43 PM Rating: Decent
yea man, u keep what you get,

the little breaks in life are what living is all about..


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I won the lottery a couple years ago, but i gave it back cause i felt bad.....
#3 Jul 13 2005 at 4:59 PM Rating: Decent
Always good when you can help someone out and they reward you in return. :)

I'm a lower lvl leathercrafter myself, and a WHM on top of that, and its very expensive for me. o.o I still can't afford Erase and don't have enough beastmen seals to do the BCNM.

But its good to share your stories of when good things happen. Gives hope to all of us out there reading. :D
#4 Jul 13 2005 at 6:07 PM Rating: Decent
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I know the feeling. Sometime last year I was playing around with my taru mule doing /emotes like /em will dance for gil etc. just ******** around. All of a sudden I get the blank wishes to trade with you msg. I enter and the guy puts 300k up and hits enter. At the time it was more gil than I had but I still said no thanks. Now mind you if the guy had given it to me for something nice I did, that would be one thing, but I wasnt gonna take the gil b/c the guy thought i was begging. Your case was a "what goes around comes around" deal so keep that in good faith.
#5 Jul 13 2005 at 6:50 PM Rating: Decent
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I agree.... "What comes around, goes around."

I've helped various people with different things all the time. Like the other day, a newbie player (from bastok) got a tele-holla.... was wanting to get to Sandy. Well, I had just tele-holla myself and he asked me if I was going to Sandy. So, I do a check on his name (/sea all ..... ) and see he's level 9, no subjob. So, I ask him if he needed an escort there. Btw, I was on my way to help a friend of mine out who recently returned back to FFXI. He said it'd be appreciated. Told him I'd take him to the OP in W. Ron. I ended up taking him to the gate leading to So. Sandy. In the end, he tried to give me 2k gil. I told him to keep it, and use it on armor or something he needs. He insisted, and I kept telling him no. "What comes around goes around." Do some favor for another person some day, is all I ask.

Anywayz, the 2k was very kind of him to offer. But me being currently 58 White Mage & 60 Samurai, I can easily farm that gil somewhere. Whereas he's new to the game, and I'm sure didn't have much in the first place.

So anywayz, use your good judgement on whether or not to accept gifts from someone you're helping. I personally won't just "give gil" to any one..... for free, that is. If they're a good person and striving for something, I might chip in. Or even suggest on ways to farm items for gil or farm the gil itself. I may even help them farm too!

Take it from me, someone who's been one of MANY VICTIMS of the Gil Stealing Thief: Cetranne. Who failed to dispurse over 2mil gil worth of stuff after some BCNM runs. I won't get into all that stuff about her. There's already been a topic posted about it here too. Titled "Cetranne = Gil Stealer"

"What Comes Around, Goes Around"

It's good to see that there are still some Good Seeds on this server!
#6 Jul 13 2005 at 9:47 PM Rating: Decent
I agree entirely Kaitlynnchimerah, what goes around come around. I have a story on this topic too:

A little over a year ago I was out camping JEJ in West Ronfaure when I saw a newbie calling for help as he was getting his @$$ beat by a couple of orcs. Naturally I don't like seeing people getting beat on, especially by orcs, (I really really don't like orcs :P) so I helped him out and basically played bodyguard for the next half hour or so to make sure he didn't get into too much trouble. After he gained a couple of levels we went back to Sandy and I bought him some new equipment. I wasn't too awfully rich at that point so it wasn't anything great but I gave him what I could spare. He thanked me and we've been friends ever since. After a while he passed me in levels (not that hard considering I only have time to seriously play about 2 nights a week) and became a very successful SMN and RNG. I was talking to him one day and mentioned that I was still trying to get some winged boots but that the price had gone up a lot so I didn't have enough gil. So he told me to hang on a minute that he just needed to buy an Austere Hat and he'd be right back. I waited and he came back and offered to trade with me. Puzzled, I opened the trade menu to see him offering me 186k gil. He said it was all he could spare at the moment. I told him no way I could take that from him, it was too much but as all of us know, high level Summoners are almost always rich and he said he had plenty more and that he wanted to help me. So, reluctantly I took it and thanked him about 15 times for it and told him that like always, if he ever needed anything to ask me and I'll try like hell to help.

So, long story short, what goes around really does and will come around.
#7 Jul 14 2005 at 1:42 PM Rating: Decent
What goes around comes around is BS.

I lost my best friend (in this game and best out of all in real life) and I really don't think I did something to deserve that. I try to always be nice and there is very little return except death and meeting other sad people.

You got lucky that you met someone who plays the game just enough to have a little extra produce. Nothing more.

****ing death.
#8 Jul 15 2005 at 3:07 AM Rating: Decent
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I disagree with Feoen. I don't have much of an in-game story to tell about this per se since it's a little limited of an experience and choices.

Sometimes I think it depends on your outlook in life and what you do about your situation. Sometimes where I am today can be attribute to luck, but I think some of it surely was of my own personal decision. I had a boyfriend and we broke up. Things got really bad within our social circle. I could have cried, said life sucked, and why did it happen to me.

I chose to do something else instead. I tried to better myself and get a new group of friends. I joined my HS student council. That lead to better things such as finding self-worth because I knew I was making a contribution to other peoples lives like helping them have fun, scholarships, peers who encouraged me to strive for better, and experiences that change me. I think I'm the only one who finished university out of my old group of friends so far. I'm in the process of trying to keep encouraging one of my other friends who had dropped out previously and is now re-attempt it. (He failed almost all his classes and lost his GF to EQ actually. It taught me to be careful of MMORPG, that's for sure.)

I've learned that sometimes "bad" and "sad" things happen to you because you grow from them and to appreciate what you have in this world. Someone's death might teach you how to live life fully. That's what happened to my parents when one of our family friends died. They realized they've been staying home and not doing anything... soon they started going out again and having fun. I also had another friend who died mysteriously climbing a mountain... and after, I realized how one individual can touch so many people in positive ways. I still climb mountains regardless of what happened to her instead of being afraid... And also if no one/nothing died, the world couldn't sustain itself. To make room for the joy of a newborn, we must let someone else go and celebrate how he/she has enriched us. We eat animals and plants everyday... it's just a cycle.

This post sounds really sappy.
#9 Jul 18 2005 at 10:45 PM Rating: Decent
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i don't think it's wrong to accept a reward. They want to thank you for what you've done, you should let them^^ though it is unfortunate that such kindness is something rare enough that the person felt like rewarding you, that is a whole different subject. Accept their kindess, I know i hate it when people won't let me thank them, and i do on occasion reward people for doing more than i expected they would.
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