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#1 Jul 22 2006 at 7:39 PM Rating: Good
I'm trying to join an HNMLS, but few seem to be actively recruiting. I'm wondering if in most cases, it's a situation where one has to have an "in" to "get in." If anyone knows of an HNMLS I might have a chance at joining, I'd be much obliged for the contact info. Thanks in advance.

P.S. I have Sky access, but no Sea.
#2 Jul 23 2006 at 10:24 PM Rating: Good
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This is always a tough one...

In a way you are right. The easiest way into an HNMLS is to have friends in an HNMLS. Many groups require a member within the ls to make a request for extending a membership to you. From there the sack holders or the big boss can accept or refuse it.

It isn't hard to meet people in these shells if you have some people skills and are fairly active in game. HNMLS members are often leveling new jobs and do other activities at all level ranges, so the odds are good that you will run into them from time to time. When doing your daily activities in game, simply pay attention to peoples pearls when you party with them and remember their names.

Simply interacting with people day to day is likely what got you into your current LS that got you from 1-75. Moving to an HNMLS isn't very different except that there are sometimes job requirements or a certain level of progress in the game expected. Go about your daily routine of partying and making friends, and odds are someone you meet will help introduce you to the people with the connections you are looking for.

On a side note, some HNMLS have web sites where you can post your interests on the forum, and they may have a recruitment section (if they are recruiting at that moment). This is kind of impersonal, but you can always give it a shot. Ideally you want to join an LS where you at least know a few people, just so that it isn't a purely buisness relationship.

Good luck!
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Asherr....

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#4 Jul 24 2006 at 2:03 AM Rating: Good
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I tend to call "HNM LS" as end game LS -- and reserved the word HNM LS to LS that camps ground god NMs regularly, and seperate them from LSs that devote most of their time Sky and Dynamis.

It is really up to what you want to get out from end game, and how much time you are willing to spend. I do know LSs (with some resonable standing) that looks for people to do certain end game activities that are less intense than the "well-known" ones, but I do not like recommending people in unless I know that person really well. So tell me what you really want from end game, I can tell you who you may talk to.

However, I still truely believe that you do not need the best item to have fun in the game. At the same time, end game does keep you enteratained in some ways, but I am never into the big item dramas and NM camp $hit talking.

A lot of people will claim their LS are the best, drama free, cheating free etc... That is one thing, that I will take precautions to believe. I have never seen a LS being draam free (no matter what LS is that). What is best LS is the one you have fun with. I am quite convineced certain LS intentionally allow suspected botters or big time gil buyers into their LS (I will not name them here) to gain advantage in certain game activities.

Edited, Jul 24th 2006 at 3:07am EDT by scchan
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#5 Jul 24 2006 at 4:47 AM Rating: Good
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As Amanada says ^_^ it really depends what you're looking for in end game. Think about what you are wanting to do; sky? dynamis? ground gods? etc...

Also every linkshell runs different ways, like Nerfed for example do points system, some linkshell take note of every attendance and base items on that, some linkshell do the leader decide who gets what. Some linkshell wants to run it in a family manner where some rather make it more business like

And also you might want to find out the money issue... like, some linkshells (although i'm not sure if any still do this..) split every single money item they get towards the members that attend. Most linkshells do linkshell banks in some sort of ways. Some linkshells would pay for your cursed counter parts when you get your Abjurations (cursed gear's purifying paper if you not sure what this is. things like Zenith, Hetacomb, koenig etc) and some wouldn't. And YourFantasy also not allow their members to leave with Kirin's Osode and Nobles tunic when they decide to leave the linkshell.

you can prolly find out more about the what linkshells are out there easily nowadays by looking around the PoL's linkshell database. or ask around if any friends are in any hnmls. There are so many out there that i doubt anyone would know exactly how many is out there XD. I think its prolly best if you find out about how the linkshell runs to see if you like it or not, then decide whether you want to join, and then go send the leader/sacks a tell and see if they're interested to recruit you :)

best of luck!

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However, I still truely believe that you do not need the best item to have fun in the game. At the same time, end game does keep you enteratained in some ways, but I am never into the big item dramas and NM camp $hit talking.


end game isn't just about items tho, you get to have fun as well, in the cost of drama (if you don't enjoy it that is :P) For some people its all about experiencing what SE has planned and provided us when we reach level cap ^^ Ama seems to like to put people off from hnmls :P When you're tired of it you find it negative, but i'm sure when everyone started loooking at the end game activities they find it fun and exciting ^-')b it's an experience ^^
#6 Jul 24 2006 at 8:19 AM Rating: Good
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I do not really hate end game LSs... Just I am sick and tired of certain BS in the game -- like cheating, accuse other groups for cheating while they are not, so-so stole a Ridill lot, etc etc. I am also really impatient to stand around for 3 hours doing nothing to hope to get a claim of something. I just choose not to deal with it.

I actually do not mind sky. There are always something to do -- at worse just go smash golems, magic pots, and robots. Even now, cheating and somewhat less legit groups operate in the sky, and a lot of because of doing of the "more legit" players themselves. I am just tired of people complaining it is all GSs fault for everything. A lot of problems are the players wrong doing themselves, and they just take them out on the GSs. (I had a good conversation about that with a GM long time ago). But oh well, good god Windowsr is gone from sky :P one less annoyance in sky now. Bah, those guys up there really need better characters names _-_ Starstar, Tankman >_>

Edited, Jul 24th 2006 at 9:20am EDT by scchan

Edited, Jul 24th 2006 at 9:23am EDT by scchan
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#7 Jul 24 2006 at 10:19 AM Rating: Good
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Every LS, not just end-game, can have it's share of drama.
#8 Jul 24 2006 at 10:34 AM Rating: Good
I'm looking for Dynamis, Sky God fights, Earth NM camping, etc. I would check out VF, Aliiyah, but you seem to be the only one willing to take in new members. I want this pretty bad, but not bad enough to deal with being treated as a leech. I want to come in, and start learning/dedicating myself to a shell. SImple and fun. I guess I'll try the avenue suggested about talking to people in party about it. I usually try to avoid that, because I don't want to seem like a kid looking for handouts. A strange balance, I suppose. Thanks for the advice everyone.
#9 Jul 24 2006 at 10:43 AM Rating: Good
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Maxemus is good friend of mine. He is great guy. He tends also be low key too, and I think that is a good thing. A lot of LSs like to big, show off, and make themselves known -- not my taste.
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#10 Jul 24 2006 at 2:16 PM Rating: Decent
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Asherr, let's talk in game more about what you are looking for and what VF has to offer. We currently are seeking members with Sky access (I am taking hopefully the last group of folks through Z's now...), who have at least Promy's done (we are running thru/have set up/are setting up SP's for CoP) and have at least 1 level 75 job. The only other requirements are the ability to have fun, help ls mates when you can, and try to attend our 3 Mandatory LS events per week (mandatory: if you are online, you must be in attendance!). We also tend to run on CST but that may be to your advantage with school and work and a social life!

Check out our site for more info: VanadielsFinest HNMLS Web Site

Check out the forum for our LS rules and regs to see if we are what you are looking for. Currently, we do Sky, Dynamis, and some of the HNM (Hakutaku, Shen, Kurrea, etc...), and are looking to move into bigger things VERY soon. (Sea, Limbus, ground gods, etc.) We currently have 75+ members and as Ama said, Max and the sacs (including me!) keep the LS, drama and all shenanigans to a low. We don't show boat, we don't bot, we use our God given skills and still seem to beat out other "bigger" LS's from time to time.

VF also frowns on LS hopping, we do not allow members to be in more than 1 HNMLS (ours) and reward our members in various ways for help and participation (active participation in LS). The more you shine, the more you get from the LS. We also run a lot of things differently than other LS's and it works extremely well for VF and keeps member's VERY happy and keeps things fun for them.

I have been talking to Vedder about "us" all SP'ing our jobs (you know the ones!) and I am sure we can talk more when we all meet up. Vedder, Esmonde, and Paragon have all come with VF on Dynamis runs and a few HNM runs as well. I know CD is growing, but I hate to say that if you REALLY want to move forward, you may end up going the path I have and find yourself spending time in your HNMLS full time and chat LS's less and less. So think very carefully before moving on. You make tons of new friends and you never loose your old friends, but sadly you find yourself drifting away from the old ones... :( I am sure you understand this.

I noticed that you didn't want to be seen as a "leech" and as long you spend time in the LS (which is WHY is said you will probably drift away from any other LS's as you will spend almost 100% of your time in your HNMLS...) and contribute to the LS as well as ask for help, this won't even be an issue. It's the people that have come in, gotten a pearl, shown up for one event, then disappear - only to pop in when we are doing events that they want drops from or when they can "get" something. Those people are the leeches and tend to get swiftly pegged as such as usually removed from LS just as quick. They think they are doing it without getting caught or that no one notices, but we have caught each and every one. Plus when people start showing up with gear we didn't get them... things get a bit obvious...

So, internalize this info, check out the website, and get back to me! Just waiting for the update to end so I can DL the new goods. So I will be checking here thru the day. Or holla at me in game this eve!



Edited, Jul 24th 2006 at 3:32pm EDT by lewbaby
#11 Jul 24 2006 at 2:34 PM Rating: Good
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I really didn't want to chime in on this one, but...

I will probably never join a HNMLS for many reasons.

The most important reason is how it changes its members. People that I have known for 2+ years and have had good times with; change dramatically when they join an HNMLS (for the worse). This is not speculation, it is first-hand experience. And, if that person becomes a sackholder; it usually (not always) goes directly to their head and they become megalomanical.

The second reason is the DRAMA. ClanD has very little drama, and most in the LS are cooperative, supportive, and respectful. Yes, it might be small and might not be going to major end-game events (yet ^^); but it is a great place to be to have fun. I have had experiences with several other LSs (VF included) and my decision to stay with CD is probably permanent. (No offense to any of my friends in other LSs) I never equipped my pearl in any of those LS, that some sort of drama/arguement/shouting match wasn't occuring.

So, Asherr, I know your personality. Make sure that you are making the right decision and know what to expect when joining an HNMLS. People who were your friend, become your leader; and that doesn't always work out (especially if your friendship and a drop become a conflict of interest). And, wait until one of the sackholders gets pissed off, if you want to see the proverbial "fur" fly. Smiley: rolleyes

I am not singleing anyone out with this post and present company is excluded. I just don't think I was cut out to be a part of such an organized cluster-f**k. Sorry for the language, but I have had bad experiences with larger LSs, and it is not for me.

My final though: "If you can't have friends, have fun, and be sociable; then what do you have? --> A collosal waste of time."

#12 Jul 24 2006 at 3:00 PM Rating: Good
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I do agree with Paragon that end game item LS is far more conducive to fights than other LSs. Fights with other LSs may seem like the biggest issue, but I think in fights are far more a problem -- who get what first blah blah. I have friends who runs drops in end game, and it is not a fun job.

I just do not see why would I would devote myself to deal with fights of item to advance in the game. For a person not excessively involve in end game, I am pleased where I am.
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#13 Jul 24 2006 at 3:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Hmmmm... Paragon's friend for 2+ years... left CD for VF... just became a sac... wonder's if she has somehow pissed off Paragon... /cry

Send me a PM Para.... v.v;;

Let's just say we had a major shakedown from when you last visited Para (several months ago) and as my new found sac-dom can attest to, there are a lot of new members and faces as sacs and there hasn't been drama in quite a while....

As for playing favorites, I never have and I never will. I have friends I am close with in VF and I treat them just as everyone else. If they are ******* up or aren't doing what they know they are supposed to be, I will tell them to get in line just as I would as when I was as a sac for CD. Just as anyone in any linkshell would. That's why there are sacs.

As for gear and going against others, I don't care but for a few pieces and I am on a the same list as other members, same as Max and other sacs. But as in ANY ls, the gear drops follow the same rules... you have to be an active member of the LS to get them. Hence why some guests or non-active VF members will never get any AF drops in Dynamis. (Unless a free-lot is called.) They have to take part in all LS events and not just pop in from time to time when they have a spare minute. That's not how any LS works. I know you wouldn't stand for that in CD as well. No one likes their LS to be used to get people things and never see them again till they need other things from the LS....

I hope that you aren't speaking about VF as the main LS you had a bad experience with and me as the friend you now don't care for. v.v;; I don't think I have changed. I still help out anyone and everyone I can to the point of rarely leveling I am helping so much. Anyhoo... talk to ya later... /hugs
#14 Jul 24 2006 at 3:29 PM Rating: Decent
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Yep... the sentiments about who should get what caused VF to make it so we show what people what they are doing, what they are attending, etc as a part of how who gets what drops is decieded. If people aren't coming to anything but events they think they can get drops in, they will SEE now why they are getting passed over for drops.

This may seem harsh to some, but let's apply this to RL. DO you let your co-workers take credit for your work? Do you sit back while they get promoted while you were the one who did all the work? No. So most LS's run the same way. If you take part in LS events and area an active participating member then you will get the drops you want. Quite simple.

Closing thought: "Nothing in life is free."
#15 Jul 24 2006 at 4:09 PM Rating: Good
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I am not singleing anyone out with this post and present company is excluded


5 different linkshells I "tried" (lmao) Two of which, were considered smaller HNMLSs. I knew more people that were VF, so that made VF sound like an excellent LS for me!

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I never equipped my pearl in any of those LS, that some sort of drama/arguement/shouting match wasn't occuring.


VF was not an exception to this, but DEFINTELY not the only one >.< (Actually, VF was rather mild in the drama department). And, I am glad that things are much improved for VF Smiley: smile

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People that I have known for 2+ years and have had good times with; change dramatically when they join an HNMLS (for the worse).


Although I have known you for about that long, there are a couple dozen others that I have known for about the same time. You should know me well enough to know that if I thought you had changed that drastically, I would have called you on it ^^

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Closing thought: "Nothing in life is free."


No offense, but Bullhockey. Being sociable, loyal, friendly, and respectful is absolutely free; and extremely rewarding. When you lose sight of that, in a social game such as FFXI, then you have compromised something. Not that you are wrong, but you have modified the reasons that you play. I, personally, am not that competetive and that is my problem (if it is a problem). Different reasons for playing, i guess.

Anyway, I was not directing any comments directly at you, and I am sorry that you interpreted it that way. Smiley: frown I tried to disclaim that in my post, but I kinda knew that a couple of folks might take it personally. That was not my intention, and that is why I held off posting for a few days.

I really like the idea of growing CD into a larger end-game LS, slowly. I wish all those other LSs that I "tried" the best, and wish them no ill-will. Many of my in-game friends are sackholders in these LSs and I still party with them and assist where needed.

I needed to make this post, so that Asherr would be warned that he is stepping into a whole new facet of the game; to make sure that he was prepared for it. He is my RL best-friend, and I am very protective ^^

Hope to see all of you in-game!

Para



#16 Jul 24 2006 at 4:20 PM Rating: Good
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Hence why some guests or non-active VF members will never get any AF drops in Dynamis. (Unless a free-lot is called.) They have to take part in all LS events and not just pop in from time to time when they have a spare minute. That's not how any LS works. I know you wouldn't stand for that in CD as well. No one likes their LS to be used to get people things and never see them again till they need other things from the LS....


I could interpret that as you talking about me >.>

But, I never lotted anything that I wasn't supposed to; and ALWAYS tried to clarify what my responsibilties were and what I was allowed to do and not to do. (Especially since I was such a newbie at some of the events) Smiley: lol

Another reason why I stayed with ClanD was the fact that I had trouble leaving it. And, I had a large investment of time and relationships already in CD.

Anyway, I don't want you thinking that I was trying to "get" something out of VF, whether that was your intention in your post, or not. I don't roll that way. But, you know that already. Smiley: grin

If something happens to CD, I will quit the game. I have come close over the past year, but CD (collectively) is the only thing that kept me from doing it.

I hope that everyone has fun and I will see you after the update! Smiley: clap

Para

#17 Jul 24 2006 at 4:45 PM Rating: Decent
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I could interpret that as you talking about me >.>


Nuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!! v.v;; Not about you....

I know all my friends that I have invited (my CD peeps!) have always been very very good about making sure they knew the rules and such. So that was not directed at you or anyone "we" know!! LOL! But there have been "others" who were guests who got pissd that they were not allowed to lot....

We also have had a recent in-flux of past VF members coming back after having tried out other HNMLS's (some for almost a year!) and feeling that they should be at the top of the drops list over others who are newer, but have been giving their all since they joined. Terrible entertaining, all handled behind the scenes, and as Ama said, it's NOT fun to have to pick people for drops. (Hence our new system that allows people to see their participation!)

I can honestly say, I, as well as other VF sacs havn't accepted drops in AGES (I just got a Aq. Abj: Head from Genbu last week, which was only my second drop ever from sky since last November!!) so that we can make sure everyone gets what they want and sees no favoritism - especially for me as a sac, Max's in-game wife and IRL gal pal - I have to be extra careful!!! But we also make it clear that we are going to keep doing gods, Dynamis, HNM's until the members get all the drops they want/need! VF sometimes gets "flack" for still killing Genbu and the "easy" HNM and gods, but it's 2-fold... we still have poeple who want/need drops and we have people that have never faught HNM/gods before and what easier way to learn then with the easiest! Then we move then thru the HNM/gods and keep winning... makes EVERYONE happy, feel good about winning, and we get wanted drops and such! Win-Win all around!

I am so sad that you had bad experiences when you popped into VF (I know the one sac is no longer in VF that you last "saw"....) and I hope that maybe if you can come to some more of our events you can see that we are different. We are alot like CD and good old KtR (pre "you-know-who" who btw is back playing again...) and you know I wouldn't be with VF if I wasn't happy and wasn't in a "good" group of people! /huggles!!! <3
#18 Jul 25 2006 at 4:08 AM Rating: Default
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WAR 75, NIN 65


just thought i would point out that your 2 jobs in that range are the least needed by any LS.

Supply and Demand. Just about every player has either a WAR or a NIN or both levelled to 75. It is easier to join a LS with a job thats in demand. Certain jobs are always in demand.

I'm just being honest.
#19 Jul 25 2006 at 10:38 AM Rating: Decent
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Go Go Dark Knight ^_^v

Hmmm Should I level DRK or COR next? ;o
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NOiSEA wrote:
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WAR 75, NIN 65


just thought i would point out that your 2 jobs in that range are the least needed by any LS.

Supply and Demand. Just about every player has either a WAR or a NIN or both levelled to 75. It is easier to join a LS with a job thats in demand. Certain jobs are always in demand.

I'm just being honest.


Orly?

I'd think most LS could use those jobs. I can't think of any melee that would be more desirable... and as someone who knows Asherr, I don't think he'll be leveling any mage jobs anytime soon.
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Hard to say with WAR, and the new partial nerf to magical damage spam. In the next week or so there could very well be new strategies forming to make the most of DD, now that SE has caught on to many of the HNMLS tricks for easy damage.

A war/thf using SATA + warrior charge + steel cyclone can take the lead in spike damage. Forcing double attack to proc on a great axe WS is just evil. I would imagine this could be handy on quite a few HNM. Add in the enhanced warcry TP enhancement for the melee party and I expect a good future for war in HNMLS.

Just as long as you remmebered to level your great axe skill >.>
#22 Jul 25 2006 at 4:12 PM Rating: Default
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Orly?

I'd think most LS could use those jobs. I can't think of any melee that would be more desirable... and as someone who knows Asherr, I don't think he'll be leveling any mage jobs anytime soon.


hmm maybe you didnt read my post.

I didnt say war or nin sucks i said almost every player on the server has at least 1 if not both of those jobs leveled to 75. If you understand the concept of Supply and demand as being "war and nin sucks and arent useful" then I have no idea what kind of help you need. Those jobs are never in demand in an endgame LS.
#23 Jul 25 2006 at 7:34 PM Rating: Good
Noisea...thanks for that. I feel good and useless now.
#24 Jul 25 2006 at 8:03 PM Rating: Good
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not necessarily, i've come across quite a few linkshells that are missing a nin. as nin is a necessary tank. war can be a strong melee in many situations.

just look around and ask.

there's always cato ls who seems to recruit anyone any job always ^_^
#25 Jul 25 2006 at 11:23 PM Rating: Default
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I'm just being realistic while everyone else is giving you fairy tale stories like "oh yeah everyone is needed" but i guess honesty was not what you wanted. If what i said wasnt true then how do you explain why your having trouble getting into a HNMLS?

i guess it comes down to this. When you asked what it takes to get into a HNMLS did you want a real answer or people to tell you what you want to hear. Most people think they are being nice by telling you what you want to hear. I feel being nice is telling the truth so you will know where you stand.

#26 Jul 26 2006 at 12:41 AM Rating: Good
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yes its true

but i definitely think nin or war are considered in hnmls...

jobs like drk drg are less likely to find a hnmls. but nins are important tanks, many linkshells would like at least 3-4 of them. Wars are very strong DD in many occasions therefore they're not rejected either.. having 2 jobs means you can be tank when someone's absent and yet be a DD when they have enough tanks makes you a more attractive player to linkshells.

of course jobs like blm brd rdm smn etc etc are much more likely to get a good linkshell.

But remember, even tho its up to the linkshell whether they recruit you.. its also up to you whether you want to join :P

i don't think its as dark as noisea make it. of course everyone has their own opinions to things ^-^;

Edited, Jul 26th 2006 at 1:41am EDT by SpiraTheWhm
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