Jophiel wrote:
Ok, sure. So take the constructive criticism and change tactics.
Unfortunately the best approach is not entirely obvious. Too rough and Freudian defenses kick in making agreeing on even the lunch order for peace talks impossible. Too gentle and no one seriously reconsiders their position.
Jophiel wrote:
Actually, I don't support your goals at all, at least not so far as "exposing religion" or whatever.
I meant more in the way that I felt you were being overly patient with the religious community.
Jophiel wrote:
I don't care if people are religious or not. The issues I do care about aren't mutually exclusive to having faith in some divine power. If someone is against, oh say gay marriage, I don't really care if it's because they have some gripe against "government benefits" or if it's because they're waving around a copy of Leviticus.
Some times treating symptoms is insufficient. For the gay issue specifically, there are a lot more quotes of Leviticus going around than grumblings over government benefits.
I'm not saying that everyone with a gun will kill, or that no one without a gun kills, but maybe, possibly, guns might make it easier to kill? It seems like few people I speak to on this board are willing to entertain the possibility that a person's core belief system might have an affect on their decision making process.
Is it always, in every single case, more effective to address only the issue at hand rather than the belief system behind it? In all the conversation I've read between you and gbaji I have yet to see see either one of you convince the other of his main point. You both have very separate and different perspectives and beliefs that affect the conclusions you both reach. If the world were split between Jophiels and gbajis how much headway could you make addressing only the issues themselves and never trying to change the other's fundamental beliefs?
Jophiel wrote:
So doing so seems less about changing the world for the better and more about ************ your own ego by acting smug in your athiesm.
There are a lot of individuals on this board doing exactly that, but not every negative comment is a good self groping.
It seems like whenever I make a negative comment concerning the topic of religion I'm either preaching to the crowd or a bigot on an agenda. Few seem interesting in really talking about the subject.
Anna and I have spoken about religion many times before, and it seems I am put into the same position every time. I say what is, or at least what I perceive to be, equivalent to "blacks are at a greater risk for heart disease," and she hears a negative comment about black people. I become the bigot from then on. Every harmful action supported by a religious group is excusable because those individuals don't represent the whole group, in fact they
cannot represent any element or possible driver within the group. I would agree that religion can drive people to accomplish both the good and bad, but it seems many don't want to accept that religion can drive people to accomplish anything bad.
Edited, Apr 8th 2009 1:04am by Allegory