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#1 Apr 22 2009 at 2:50 PM Rating: Excellent
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...but if anyone is interested in seeing any part of the judiciary hearing on the proposed equal marriage legislation pending in Maine, held today in Augusta (and ongoing until tonight, actually), it will be available in full tomorrow at http://www.mainecampus.com/ (University newspaper).

The evangelicals came out to preach, but were outnumbered 4 to 1, roughly.

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#2gbaji, Posted: Apr 22 2009 at 4:23 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) And they people who outnumbered them 4 to 1 weren't preaching?
#3 Apr 22 2009 at 4:38 PM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
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The evangelicals came out to preach, but were outnumbered 4 to 1, roughly.


And they people who outnumbered them 4 to 1 weren't preaching?


Not in the religious sense of the word.
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#4 Apr 22 2009 at 4:57 PM Rating: Excellent
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While I suppose anyone stating anything *could* be preaching, I would generally say that were I to witness one person testifying as to their own personal experiences and then another reciting gospel, I would be inclined to see a difference there.

Of course, I'm not insane.

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#5 Apr 22 2009 at 5:02 PM Rating: Good
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Nexa wrote:
Of course, I'm not insane.


I dunno... you do put up with Smash.
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#6 Apr 22 2009 at 5:21 PM Rating: Excellent
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Of course, I'm not insane.


I dunno... you do put up with Smash.


You've no idea what he puts up with :D

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#7 Apr 22 2009 at 6:07 PM Rating: Excellent
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So you ARE insane.

How'd the hearing go?

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#8 Apr 22 2009 at 7:38 PM Rating: Decent
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While I suppose anyone stating anything *could* be preaching, I would generally say that were I to witness one person testifying as to their own personal experiences and then another reciting gospel, I would be inclined to see a difference there.


What kind of difference? Other than the specifics of the source of what they are saying, how would that affect your reaction to what they are saying?

What I'm trying to get at is to what degree you decide to believe what someone is saying based on why they are saying it, and not what they're actually saying. So, if one person relates his personal experience about how good it was to ***** over a friend of his, and the other was reciting "treat others as you'd have them treat you" from a gospel, would you place more weight and value on the first guy's statements than the second?

At the end of the day, isn't that really the least important criteria to use when deciding if what someone says has validity?

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Nope. You, along with most people, tend to judge ideas and opinions based on who says it, or where it comes from rather than what it actually is. Your dismissal of objections to gay marriage as "evangelicals preaching" is just an obvious symptom of this methodology.

What's really interesting is that there seems to be a second stage to this. You've first concluded that religious sources are not credible. And now you label any group of people you don't agree with in some religious context, thus providing you with a wonderful self-creating refutation of anything you don't like.


Or did you actually ask the folks you mentioned if they were "evangelical"? If so, you can ignore the second part...
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#9 Apr 22 2009 at 9:08 PM Rating: Good
It seems to me that her dismissal of their "preaching" is due the to the fact that, surprisingly, they're preaching. Attempting to make a segment of our population second class citizens in regards to their martial status based on a 2,000 year old book which is not universally subscribed to seems a bit...odd. And, again it seems to me that if they are preaching in public they are most likely evangelical, the two do go hand in hand.

And, please, this is a one paragraph statement. No need to respond with a novella.
#10gbaji, Posted: Apr 22 2009 at 9:20 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Fine. Thanks for proving my point. You do realize that you just did *exactly* what I said I believed Nexa was doing? You broadly defined persuasive speech you disagree with as "preaching". You dismissed the position they held because of the source and not the argument. And then you proceeded to label those holding that position based on those initial assumptions.
#11 Apr 22 2009 at 9:38 PM Rating: Good
To begin, I did not "broadly define persuasive speech", I'm specifically referring to preaching, in the sense of a religious based argument. And please, where I did label anyone? If you are referring to my use of evangelical, well, citing your religion in public as the base of an argument is quite the evangelical act, no?

If their argument is based off of the Bible, or another religious text, and their issues with homosexuality stem from these aforementioned texts, then their arguments are in fact preaching. If, say, they are Christians who argue that equal marriage will affect the economy negatively, or Muslims who are against equal marriage rights because they feel marriage is an outdated institution, then they would not be preaching. Basing your arguments off a religious source is preaching.

Would you not say you respond the same way to many a poster on this board?


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#12 Apr 22 2009 at 9:53 PM Rating: Decent
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To begin, I did not "broadly define persuasive speech", I'm specifically referring to preaching, in the sense of a religious based argument.


Earlier, we discussed how "preaching" isn't restricted to religious speech. Maybe you missed it.

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And please, where I did label anyone? If you are referring to my use of evangelical, well, citing your religion in public as the base of an argument is quite the evangelical act, no?


Are you seriously suggesting that the *only* people who might show up to oppose a gay marriage law would do so for religious reasons, and that all of those would therefore be "evangelical christians"?

How exactly is that not "assumptive labeling"? Cause that's what it looks like to me...

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If their argument is based off of the Bible, or another religious text, and their issues with homosexuality stem from these aforementioned texts, then their arguments are in fact preaching.


First off. I didn't see the video. Nexa did. I doubt if you have either. Hence, why I asked her if they actually identified themselves as christians, let alone evangelicals. Your assumption that every protester there opposed the legislative change based on a religious text came from her talk about "preaching" and labeling of those there as "evangelicals".

Do you see how that's both assumptive and circular?

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If, say, they are Christians who argue that equal marriage will affect the economy negatively, or Muslims who are against equal marriage rights because they feel marriage is an outdated institution, then they would not be preaching. Basing your arguments off a religious source is preaching.


Really? I think it would still be "preaching" in a broad sense, but whatever. The point is that it wouldn't be based on religion, right? Would that make it more or less right or wrong though? That was the point I was trying to get to. That their position isn't made right or wrong due to their reasons for holding it. Their reasons may be poor, but that's not the same thing.


I was trying to get at whether Nexa assumed they were evangelicals preaching because they were opposed to gay marriage, or if they identified themselves that way. And secondly, I was trying to get to whether or not that automatically discounted their position for some reason. So, if I'm a religious person, my ideas don't count? That's funny, cause I don't recall reading that in our constitution anywhere... They could oppose gay marriage because they believe that our alien overlords don't like it, and they'd have just as much right to protest. We might be able to laugh at them for their reasons of course.

I was just trying to get at what prompted Nexa to use those precise words to describe those who opposed gay marriage. You following up with a boatload of assumptive bias is just icing on the cake, I suppose...

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Would you not say you respond the same way to many a poster on this board?


By calling them religious for no reason other than I don't agree with what they say? No. I don't think so. See. I happen to firmly believe that people can hold equally silly and stupid ideas in their heads even without any religion involved at all. Thus, I don't assume that someone who holds a different position *is* anything. I wait to see what their arguments are first.

It's ok to label an argument as a religious argument, but it's not ok to do so based solely on a position. Positions can be derived for any of a number of reasons.
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#13 Apr 22 2009 at 10:56 PM Rating: Decent
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I saw this thread with Gbaji having the latest reply and wondered how a live stream could possibly be turned into a verbose debate.

I can't believe I even questioned it.
#14 Apr 23 2009 at 12:36 AM Rating: Decent
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Actually. What's amusing is that they've got a photo slide on that page now, and the only group of people I can see that are obviously dressed in Christian garb is a group called the Religious Coalition for the Freedom to Marry, which is a pro-gay marriage religious organization.

Dunno. I'm sure those weren't the "evangelicals" Nexa referred to, but I just laughed because when I first watched the slideshow, I thought "Well. Those people look like Evangelicals. Maybe that's who Nexa was talking about". Then I read the blurb attached to the image...
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Aside from religious vestments, what is "Christian garb"?
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gbaji wrote:
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The evangelicals came out to preach, but were outnumbered 4 to 1, roughly.


And they people who outnumbered them 4 to 1 weren't preaching?
I didnt attend the hearing, but have kept up on this issue. The folks that are voicing opposition to equal marriage rights are citing doctrine from the bible as justification to not allow same-sex couples to marry. Those on the other side of the issue are, for the most part, arguing their cause based on equality and the negative impacts that many have been victim too for not being allowed to marry. There is a big difference - if you choose not to 'get' that, it's simply because you're being selectively obtuse. See if you can figure out the difference between these two statements:

1) My child is not allowed on my health insurance policy because his/her mother and I are not allowed to legally marry.

2) God says it's a sin for man to lie with man. I believe in god, so I deny others the option of marriage based on MY beliefs.

Bottom line is that given two pairs of people, all else being equal, the pair composed of a woman and a man are given the opportunity to marry and bestowed with all the rights and responsibilities granted by that legal union. The couple of man and man or woman and woman are not. This is inequality in gender. Any other arguments are based on opinion or creed.
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#17 Apr 23 2009 at 5:11 AM Rating: Excellent
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One of the things I like most about this piece of legislation is how it specifically addresses the religious concerns:

LD 1020 (SP 384) "An Act To End Discrimination in Civil Marriage and Affirm Religious Freedom"

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3. Affirmation of religious freedom. This Part does not authorize any court or other state or local governmental body, entity, agency or commission to compel, prevent or interfere in any way with any religious institution's religious doctrine, policy, teaching or solemnization of marriage within that particular religious faith's tradition as guaranteed by the Maine Constitution, Article 1, Section 3 or the First Amendment of the United States Constitution. A person authorized to join persons in marriage and who fails or refuses to join persons in marriage is not subject to any fine or other penalty for such failure or refusal.


I don't know how much more clear we can make it that we're discussing only the civil institution of marriage, but it doesn't matter to the folks showing up to recite bible passages anyway.

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#18 Apr 23 2009 at 5:44 AM Rating: Good
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Aside from religious vestments, what is "Christian garb"?


Smiley: lol This. How dare you broadly define a style of dress and label people? You have no idea what their position is, gbaji.

I think it's amusingly ironic that gbaji was calling Nexa a bigot for judging people for the actions and/or words, and now gbaji is judging people solely on how they're dressed.

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The folks that are voicing opposition to equal marriage rights are citing doctrine from the bible as justification to not allow same-sex couples to marry.


All of them? Or just some of them? Maybe the ones the folks holding the cameras make sure to focus on when showing the opposition?

Unless you were there and talked to everyone who opposed this change (which you said you didn't), you can't possibly speak intelligently about how those voicing their opposition to this specific legal change were doing so.

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Those on the other side of the issue are, for the most part, arguing their cause based on equality and the negative impacts that many have been victim too for not being allowed to marry.


Why not use the phrase "for the most part" when describing the first group? Think about that, and you'll realize the bias of your own perceptions.

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There is a big difference - if you choose not to 'get' that, it's simply because you're being selectively obtuse.


No. I'm objectively assessing how several people in this thread seem to go out of their way to denigrate and dismiss the opinions of those they disagree with. In this particular case, it's labeling them all as religious fanatics. Honestly, I just got done with a big gay marriage debate. That wasn't my point here. I was just pointing out how perceptions can be skewed by assumptions about those we are perceiving. You view those who you agree with as rational, thoughtful people, and those you disagree with as blind, ignorant, religious bigots.

Ever consider it's really not that simple?

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See if you can figure out the difference between these two statements:

1) My child is not allowed on my health insurance policy because his/her mother and I are not allowed to legally marry.


It's not your child any more than any other friend of mine's child is mine. Labeling the child "my child" is a semantic technique designed to maximize the emotional impact of the statement, but is irrelevant to the real issue at hand.

It's a nice appeal to emotion, with a side of falsehood.

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2) God says it's a sin for man to lie with man. I believe in god, so I deny others the option of marriage based on MY beliefs.


Or maybe they believe we shouldn't be encouraging, let alone rewarding behavior they regard as sinful? Look. I can't speak for the devout religious folks out there, and I'm sure they have strong feelings that are somewhat similar to this. I'm just pointing out how the language changes depending on which side you like the most. Those are much more "different" than the arguments for/against gay marriage.


When giving an example of people you don't agree with, you use terms like "denying others" to describe what they are doing. When describing those you do, you call upon the image of a helpless child in need of care. Care which is denied to them (hah!) by those evil anti-gay-marriage folks.


Both examples use negative language. In the first, gay marriage is "good" because to deny it is to deny the marriage and the child's medical care. In the second opposing gay marriage is "bad" because they're denying the option to marry. Do you see how you basically just restated the same position in mirror image (with the whole child thing thrown in of course)?


Tell you what. I'm going to regret this, but I'll do it anyway. Give me a reason why gay couples should be granted the legal status of "married" under their state law which does not include something being denied to them. I want to hear a "positive" reason. I'm sure you can do it, but I think it might be a useful exercise. It's too easy to argue for something based on what that something is against. I want to hear what it's "for".

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Bottom line is that given two pairs of people, all else being equal, the pair composed of a woman and a man are given the opportunity to marry and bestowed with all the rights and responsibilities granted by that legal union. The couple of man and man or woman and woman are not. This is inequality in gender. Any other arguments are based on opinion or creed.



No. It's an inequality based on biology. It's about the makeup of the couple, not each individual within it.


Here's something to chew your noodle on:

Why might it be perfectly ok to sell two different type of ammunition or two different types of guns to the same person at one time at a gun store, but not to sell the same type of gun and ammunition to the same person at one time and in one store?


And for the record, that is an example of a rational argument (assuming you "get" it).
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Why might it be perfectly ok to sell two different type of ammunition or two different types of guns to the same person at one time at a gun store, but not to sell the same type of gun and ammunition to the same person at one time and in one store?
Because conservatives hate the 2nd Amendment?
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#21 Apr 23 2009 at 9:04 PM Rating: Good
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There is a big difference - if you choose not to 'get' that, it's simply because you're being selectively obtuse.


No. I'm objectively assessing how several people in this thread seem to go out of their way to denigrate and dismiss the opinions of those they disagree with. In this particular case, it's labeling them all as religious fanatics. Honestly, I just got done with a big gay marriage debate. That wasn't my point here. I was just pointing out how perceptions can be skewed by assumptions about those we are perceiving. You view those who you agree with as rational, thoughtful people, and those you disagree with as blind, ignorant, religious bigots.

Ever consider it's really not that simple?

No, cause it really is that simple.
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There is a big difference - if you choose not to 'get' that, it's simply because you're being selectively obtuse.


No. I'm objectively assessing how several people in this thread seem to go out of their way to denigrate and dismiss the opinions of those they disagree with. In this particular case, it's labeling them all as religious fanatics. Honestly, I just got done with a big gay marriage debate. That wasn't my point here. I was just pointing out how perceptions can be skewed by assumptions about those we are perceiving. You view those who you agree with as rational, thoughtful people, and those you disagree with as blind, ignorant, religious bigots.

Ever consider it's really not that simple?

No, cause it really is that simple.
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