Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Elinda wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Samira wrote:
Also from this and other threads I'm thinking it's the self-esteem thing...
I thought the same thing. Which is odd, 'cause she's really cute.
Self-esteem issues don't arise from 'looks' or lack of them.
True. I just often find it surprising when attractive people don't have very good self-esteem.
Low self-esteem starts at home. Nicknames from your parents. Being forced to be the fattest kid on the stage during a dance recital. Picked on as kids in school (look at columbine, but they weren't in it to get laid).
It starts as a seed and the more people say/do to you, the more it grows. And you really do become blind to your self worth. Low self-esteem is an invasive thing. It chokes out everything, including your self worth.
You don't realize your talents. You also don't see the beauty in who you really are. Whether its inside, or outside, or insideout.
I don't know.