Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
The only way you couldn't in any sense be splitting the check is if one person pays for the entire thing, which wasn't one of the options, so I didn't think about it.
But it's not right to always have one person pay for everything. If you're meetting someone, or a group of people for lunch, and no one is actually the de facto host, then how would you decide who gets stiffed with paying for the entire thing?
I mean, not that this has anything to do with healthcare, but it's an interesting side topic.
I think you are confused as to what I was sayin'.
My point was that I hate dividing up a retaurant bill and working out who pays what. It seems childish/selfish/trivial. And I don't think that one person does
always end up paying.
A lot of the time
I pay, but I'm pretty sorted when it comes to cash. Some of my friends are not. But I'm not going to
not go out for dinner with my friends 'cos they have less
money than I do . I would rather they come, have a good time, thereby increasing my
own enjoyment, and, being good folk, I know that, one day when they
can afford it, they
will get the bill. It may mean that I end up paying for dinner more often, but I also know that they will do whatever else it is they
can do instead, whether its inviting us around for dinner at their house, or paying for the fuel next time we go on a surf trip, or bringing over a 6lb trout over that they caught over for us (Cheers for that bruv, yum!
).....
Its about believing that the more you give, the more you get back.
Its quite a nice way of life that leads to being surrounded by lots of people who do nice things for each other, and I would reccomend it to anyone.