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#227 Jan 13 2010 at 9:42 PM Rating: Decent
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Ok. Semi-serious question:


Do you actually honestly think that Varus is gay? I don't want the stereotypical "All Conservatives opposed to gay marriage are really secretly in the closet homosexuals". I want an honest answer if possible.


No.


Exactly. Call him an idiot for checking the wrong box. Make fun of him. Heck. Make fun of the picture by all means. All fine and dandy and certainly fair game. But don't interject some kind of serious argument about him being hypocritical towards homosexuality.


Obviously, this was directed at Ambrya in this case, but I've seen some other posters in the past do the same thing.
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No.
Dodging!


It's so hard to keep my footing on this here slippery slope. Smiley: frown

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#229 Jan 13 2010 at 9:43 PM Rating: Excellent
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I hope to god that varus isn't gay. We don't need that kind of publicity.
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Bardalicious wrote:
I hope to god that varus isn't gay. We don't need that kind of publicity.


For real. Tom Cruise and Perez Hilton are just about enough to contend with, I'd think.

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#231 Jan 13 2010 at 9:48 PM Rating: Good
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Samira wrote:
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I hope to god that varus isn't gay. We don't need that kind of publicity.


For real. Tom Cruise and Perez Hilton are just about enough to contend with, I'd think.

Kudos, you just named my least favorite gay and least favorite "maybe-gay"
#232 Jan 13 2010 at 9:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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What, you're not sure about Perez?

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#233 Jan 13 2010 at 9:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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What, you're not sure about Perez?


http://www.instantrimshot.com/
#234 Jan 13 2010 at 9:57 PM Rating: Good
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Samira wrote:
Atomicflea wrote:
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No.
Dodging!


It's so hard to keep my footing on this here slippery slope. Smiley: frown

I hear sidestepping helps.
#235 Jan 13 2010 at 9:58 PM Rating: Excellent
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"Sidestepping" is just a liberal word for dodging.
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#236 Jan 13 2010 at 10:27 PM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
Ok. Semi-serious question:

Do you actually honestly think that Varus is gay? I don't want the stereotypical "All Conservatives opposed to gay marriage are really secretly in the closet homosexuals". I want an honest answer if possible.

I see it as a distinct possibility. I mean, he tries really really really, really, *really* hard to show us what a manly man's man he is. The desperation reeks of actually being a man's man.
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#237 Jan 13 2010 at 11:00 PM Rating: Good
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#238 Jan 14 2010 at 12:06 AM Rating: Good
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No, genius. It's actually, "Hah hah! I found a thingie on the internet saying you are a complete hypocrite, and therefore your opinions on the subject have zero credibility."



Ok. Semi-serious question:


Do you actually honestly think that Varus is gay? I don't want the stereotypical "All Conservatives opposed to gay marriage are really secretly in the closet homosexuals". I want an honest answer if possible.


Honest answer. Okay.

I'm absolutely not one of those people who asserts that any homophobe is a repressed homosexual. I don't make generalizations like that. However, with Virus, we have a very specific set of facts, which are as follows:

1) His strident attempts to proclaim and "prove" his heterosexuality, with increasingly more outlandish claims about what a studly ladies man he is

2) His constantly changing version of how the ad came to be in the first place, each version of which was less credible and more absurd than the last

3) The fact that (so far as I know; my memory may be a bit sketchy) he never once just said, "Whoops, clicked the wrong box, my bad, guess I'd better fix that."

4) The fact that he has lied about his sex life many times before (I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)

Taking all that into consideration, I'd have to say that--at the very least--he's hiding SOMETHING. What that is, I don't know. His claims are too outlandish and convoluted to be believed, ergo, he's lying. Maybe he's become so obsessed with his hatred of gays that some perverse part of his brain has actually started to wonder what it's all about. I don't know. I do know he's a self-aggrandizing liar, which makes it easy to believe he's a self-hating closeted homosexual, considering how obsessed he is with that particular topic.
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(I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)

Perhaps you've forgotten that his Altima has a CD changer.
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I'm convinced that gbaji is really Jophiel in some internet Psycho-type plot, which makes Jophiel into Norman Bates and gbaji into an old lady.

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#241 Jan 14 2010 at 12:28 AM Rating: Good
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Ambrya wrote:
(I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)

Perhaps you've forgotten that his Altima has a CD changer.


About the only piece of equipment that would lure women into his car would be a sybian (NWS) rigged up in the passenger seat.

Edited, Jan 13th 2010 10:38pm by Ambrya
#242 Jan 14 2010 at 12:37 AM Rating: Decent
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I'm convinced that gbaji is really Jophiel in some internet Psycho-type plot, which makes Jophiel into Norman Bates and gbaji into an old lady.

Do you really think Joph would give up the extra 20k posts? Come on now.
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#243 Jan 14 2010 at 12:45 AM Rating: Good
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Ambrya wrote:
However, with Virus, we have a very specific set of facts, which are as follows:

1) His strident attempts to proclaim and "prove" his heterosexuality, with increasingly more outlandish claims about what a studly ladies man he is

2) His constantly changing version of how the ad came to be in the first place, each version of which was less credible and more absurd than the last

3) The fact that (so far as I know; my memory may be a bit sketchy) he never once just said, "Whoops, clicked the wrong box, my bad, guess I'd better fix that."

4) The fact that he has lied about his sex life many times before (I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)


Honestly, I'm shocked that you've spent a fraction of the time necessary to compile that list thinking about the personal life of Varus. He's an anonymous person on the internet. For all you know, he's a 60 year old bi-sexual hermaphrodite with bad hair. Does it really matter?



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His claims are too outlandish and convoluted to be believed, ergo, he's lying.


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#244 Jan 14 2010 at 12:51 AM Rating: Excellent
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Honestly, I'm shocked that you've spent a fraction of the time necessary to compile that list thinking about the personal life of Varus. He's an anonymous person on the internet. For all you know, he's a 60 year old bi-sexual hermaphrodite with bad hair. Does it really matter?

Ordinary people usually learn things as they read them, and don't have to spend time going back to compile a list of it all. There's nothing on that list so specific as to suggest that it took more than the effort to type it up.
#245 Jan 14 2010 at 12:53 AM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
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However, with Virus, we have a very specific set of facts, which are as follows:

1) His strident attempts to proclaim and "prove" his heterosexuality, with increasingly more outlandish claims about what a studly ladies man he is

2) His constantly changing version of how the ad came to be in the first place, each version of which was less credible and more absurd than the last

3) The fact that (so far as I know; my memory may be a bit sketchy) he never once just said, "Whoops, clicked the wrong box, my bad, guess I'd better fix that."

4) The fact that he has lied about his sex life many times before (I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)


Honestly, I'm shocked that you've spent a fraction of the time necessary to compile that list thinking about the personal life of Varus.


Well, I hadn't until you asked me to justify why I was accusing him of hypocrisy. Then I formulated my response while zoning out waiting for Tristan to fall asleep.

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He's an anonymous person on the internet. For all you know, he's a 60 year old bi-sexual hermaphrodite with bad hair. Does it really matter?


The discourse here, particularly as it pertains to Virus, is him asserting that he's right and everyone else is wrong, and that his opinions are valid and credible because of "this, that, and the other thing." If the facts don't support the veracity of "this, that, and the other thing" then his credibility is seriously in doubt, is it not?

Are you asserting that we should not consider the credibility of the person espousing a given position?

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His claims are too outlandish and convoluted to be believed, ergo, he's lying.


Mom!!! Someone is lying about themselves on the Internet!


Nice dodge. Yes or no, are you saying that credibility is irrelevant?

Edited, Jan 13th 2010 11:06pm by Ambrya
#246 Jan 14 2010 at 1:12 AM Rating: Good
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(I can safely speak for every person on the planet possessed of two X chromosomes when I say that, with THAT face, there is no way on this earth he has pussy dropping into his lap every time he idles his perv-mobile on the local campus)

Perhaps you've forgotten that his Altima has a CD changer.


About the only piece of equipment that would lure women into his car would be a sybian (NWS) rigged up in the passenger seat.

Edited, Jan 13th 2010 10:38pm by Ambrya
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#247 Jan 14 2010 at 1:21 AM Rating: Decent
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Ambrya wrote:
Are you asserting that we should not consider the credibility of the person espousing a given position?


I think that most positions should be considered on their own merits, not that of the person espousing them. But then that's a difference I tend to have with a lot of people. I judge the idea or words expressed, not the person expressing them. Most people judge the person instead, usually leading them to make wrong choices...


Don't get me wrong here. I think that most of Varus' arguments are ridiculous and at best poorly expressed. But if his argument is wrong, it's because of those reasons, not because he may or may not be a closet homosexual.

Let me also point out that even if his argument for something is poor or unsound, this does not make the position he's holding "wrong" either. It just means that he picked a poor argument to support his position...

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Nice dodge. Yes or no, are you saying that credibility is irrelevant?


I suppose if the subject at hand rests solely on taking someone's word for it, credibility matters. But if (for example) we're discussing whether having the government pay to provide health care to poor people is a "right" or not, I'm unsure how credibility with regard to background details of the poster really enters into the equation...


You're being just as illogical as he is in that case. It's illogical for him to argue that we should not provide free health care to people because most of those people are "lazy dark skinned folk". But it's equally illogical for you to argue that we should provide free health care because Varus is really a closet homosexual. Surely, you see that...


It may be amusing to say that as a joke, but some people seem to actually allow their opinions on issues to be swayed by it. Frankly, that trend is far more frightening than anything Varus may say or do. There are tools people can use to make good decisions about issues around them. Sadly, very very few people seem to have ever been taught those tools. Thus, most people do tend to make decisions, not based on any sort of logical assessment of the situation before them, but based on the perceived "credibility" of the people presenting one side or the other. It becomes about picking a side and assuming whatever that side says is right.


Which is scarily dangerous for a large portion of people in a democracy to do...

Edited, Jan 13th 2010 11:29pm by gbaji
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But it's equally illogical for you to argue that we should provide free health care because Varus is really a closet homosexual. Surely, you see that...

[blah blah bullshit bluster and more blah]


And now here you are pulling stuff out of your ***, because no one has ever made any such claim.

The personal ad only ever gets brought up when Virus goes off bragging about what a stud he supposedly is, or gets into one of his tirades about homosexuality and the wrongness of gay marriage (an argument which almost always, in Virus's case, boils down to some nonsense about the how the government shouldn't sanction immoral behavior.) If he is, in fact, lying about his sexual orientation, then his argument on the subject becomes invalid, because it comes from a place of hypocrisy.

To say we shouldn't consider the source when he demonstrates his hypocrisy is just absurd, and you know it. You're just trying to get your "I'm always right" **** on by--as you so often do--trying to wiggle the discourse around so that the discussion is no longer about the issue YOU originally brought up.

For those keeping score at home, let's recap, shall we?

You first attempted to shame people for bringing up the ad. I pointed out your less-than-sincere, theatrically outraged finger-waggling and head-shaking was wrong by asserting that highlighting a hypocritical position in a debate is perfectly valid.

Then you attempted to dismiss the possibility that any of us may genuinely believe that Virus is being a hypocrite by asking if we HONESTLY felt he might be gay. I then took the wind out of your sails on that one by HONESTLY asserting that Virus is, at the very least, being dishonest about his sexuality, and supporting that belief with facts.

THEN you derided my having given you the honest and thorough answer you requested as being a ridiculous waste of time. I then brought it back to my original point--one which you seem to have conveniently forgotten you had challenged--that hypocrisy goes to credibility.

So now you're trying to make some ridiculous claim that credibility doesn't matter, when it patently DOES, and I'm sorry but I'm not going to let you get away with it. You've gotten caught out on every point you've tried to raise since making a stink about the personal ad, and each time you have been, you attempt to shift the subject to some other cause for outrage. Accept it, and stay on topic. Don't keep trying to obfuscate and twist things around until you feel you're "right" again.



Edited, Jan 14th 2010 12:08am by Ambrya
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The personal ad only ever gets brought up when Virus goes off bragging about what a stud he supposedly is, or gets into one of his tirades about homosexuality and the wrongness of gay marriage (an argument which almost always, in Virus's case, boils down to some nonsense about the how the government shouldn't sanction immoral behavior.) If he is, in fact, lying about his sexual orientation, then his argument on the subject becomes invalid, because it comes from a place of hypocrisy.


Are you saying that someone cannot believe that something they themselves secretly engage in is immoral? So if I'm a drug addict, and I say that drugs are bad and you shouldn't use them, I'm wrong because what I'm saying is hypocritical? Or if I'm a priest who molests my altar boys and I say that child molestation is bad, I'm wrong because I'm being hypocritical?


You asked if the personal credibility had relevance to someone's position on an issue. I said that baring specific cases where we're simply asked to take someone's word on something, that no, it doesn't. We should decide whether or not drugs are bad for us based on an assessment of the affects of drugs on us, not whether or not the person saying that is a drug addict.

In the exact same way, Varus' sexual orientation has absolutely zero bearing on the validity of his arguments about gay marriage or homosexuality in general. It's utterly irrelevant. Those arguments should be judged on their own merits, and the position as a whole should be judged and debated based on the best arguments on each side. Doing anything else leads us to false conclusions.


I'm making no judgment about Varus here. I don't know why you seem so stuck on that aspect of it. All I'm doing is commenting on the usefulness or lack thereof of the attempt to use Varus' "credibility" in this case for anything other than humor (and to observe that it's gotten a bit stale there as well).

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I pointed out your less-than-sincere, theatrically outraged finger-waggling and head-shaking was wrong by asserting that highlighting a hypocritical position in a debate is perfectly valid.


A point I disagree with. It's a technique that is used all the time in public debate. Largely because the bulk of the audience doesn't realize that it's a fallacious approach, so it works. You can't be faulted for that assumption though, since odds are your only actual experience with debate is from what you see on TV.

In real debate, the personal positions and actions of the debater are irrelevant. In fact, you're trained to debate by taking positions that are randomly assigned. What you believe or do is irrelevant. You're supposed to find evidence to support the position you are given and use good solid arguments to make that evidence "prove" your position. You're judged on how well you do this without resorting to fallacious techniques. Attacking the person instead of the argument is usually going to get you a failing grade.

Of course, public debate is completely different. We can blame TV and large volumes of ignorance for that...

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Then you attempted to dismiss the possibility that any of us may genuinely believe that Virus is being a hypocrite by asking if we HONESTLY felt he might be gay. I then took the wind out of your sails on that one by HONESTLY asserting that Virus is, at the very least, being dishonest about his sexuality, and supporting that belief with facts.

THEN you derided my having given you the honest and thorough answer you requested as being a ridiculous waste of time.


I derided you because you fell into exactly the sort of stereotypical assumptive joke response I asked you not to. You tossed out the "anyone who is that opposed to homosexuality must be a closet homosexual" bit. Of course, that makes your entire argument circular, doesn't it? Think about it...

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I then brought it back to my original point--one which you seem to have conveniently forgotten you had challenged--that hypocrisy goes to credibility.


Yes. But neither says anything about being right or wrong about a position that is held. Which was the point I was making.

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So now you're trying to make some ridiculous claim that credibility doesn't matter, when it patently DOES...


It matters only if we're considering an issue where we have to take someone's word for something. If Varus claims that he saw Obama smoking crack in his back yard last week, we could correctly judge him to be BSing us due to a history of telling tall tales. But if Varus claims that the Earth revolves around the Sun, we should not resort to such methods, but should rather find out if there is evidence to support that claim.

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...and I'm sorry but I'm not going to let you get away with it. You've gotten caught out on every point you've tried to raise since making a stink about the personal ad, and each time you have been, you attempt to shift the subject to some other cause for outrage. Accept it, and stay on topic. Don't keep trying to obfuscate and twist things around until you feel you're "right" again.


I have addressed your issue with credibility head on. I disagree with you. I thought I was clear about that in my previous post.


I stated two things:

1. That the humor factor of the whole "man seeking man" bit was wearing thin.

2. That whether Varus is homosexual really doesn't have any bearing at all on the rightness or wrongness of any position he holds with regard to homosexuality.

EDIT: And technically a third point: That unfortunately, far too many people do make choices based on perceived credibility rather than the facts of the issue before them. Worse, some people specifically attack the credibility of someone holding an opposing position in order to get people to support their side. It's a bad idea to agree with someone because you think they've been right about other things in the past. It's absolutely moronic to agree with someone because the you think the guy arguing against him has been wrong about other things in the past.


I have not spun those statements. I have not shied away from discussing them. We may be progressing from different assumptions, but that doesn't mean that we're not both still debating the same topic.

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#250 Jan 14 2010 at 4:10 AM Rating: Good
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In the exact same way, Varus' sexual orientation has absolutely zero bearing on the validity of his arguments about gay marriage or homosexuality in general. It's utterly irrelevant. Those arguments should be judged on their own merits, and the position as a whole should be judged and debated based on the best arguments on each side.


I've yet to see any arguments of Varus' in regards to homosexuality "with merits." His position is that by the very nature of being gay, homosexuals are engaging in "immoral" behavior. He's for small government, yet has no qualms about the government interfering with homosexual's rights & bedroom practices.

He's a lieing, hypocritical douchebag & the man seeking man add supports that claim.
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#251 Jan 14 2010 at 5:34 AM Rating: Excellent
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I'm convinced Virus is a repressed psychotic that lives in his mother's basement and keeps a U-Haul storage unit stashed with a fridge filled with human flesh. I'm not making any claims or assertions, you understand, I just wouldn't want to encounter him in a dark alley way.





Or a lit one, for that matter, because then I'd have to look at that face.

Edited, Jan 14th 2010 5:43am by Atomicflea
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