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#1 Jan 17 2010 at 2:06 PM Rating: Excellent
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Florida court orders woman to bed rest against her will

Now, while the woman SHOULD have been taking care of her pregnancy if she planned to keep it, and while I DO applaud her care providers for trying to find a way to keep her from having a premature or stillborn baby, it is absolutely inappropriate for the court to try to take her right to make her own medical decisions out of her hands. She sought her doctor's advice, she decided against taking it for whatever reasons (be they right or wrong.) That should be the end of the discussion. Her body, her choice.

Putting the safety of a gestating fetus above the will of the mother and her right to choose what to do with her own body is clearly a step toward imposing even further limits on the right to choose. Which--though they seem to be pussyfooting around coming out and actually saying it--is clearly why the ACLU has taken up the standard in this case.

The fact that this COULD also lead to criminalizing behavior such as not taking prenatal vitamins, not undergoing prenatal screening tests (some of which are of very questionable benefit or necessity,) smoking, drinking alcohol, drinking coffee, or hell, eating chocolate during pregnancy is not a small concern either. We could eventually have a situation where a woman is prosecuted for not "doing the right thing" according to the doctrine of the Mommy Wars Prenatal Bible, or making any sort of alternative, non-mainstream-sanctioned choice for herself doing pregnancy.

Edited, Jan 17th 2010 12:25pm by Ambrya
#2 Jan 17 2010 at 2:19 PM Rating: Excellent
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I can't stand all the crap that comes along with being pregnant. "Make sure you do this, NEVER do that, and always eat this!" It's like the human race wasn't able to survive until all these rules came about.

In fact, I'm gonna go get pregnant right now, smoke 2 packs a day, drink a case of beer a day and eat nothing but ice cream while I sit my fat *** on the couch.
#3 Jan 17 2010 at 2:31 PM Rating: Good
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I did like this:

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And in Pennsylvania, a hospital obtained a court order when a mother of six refused a Caesarian because the fetus had suspected macrosomia, or excessive weight. She fled and later gave birth vaginally to a healthy 11-pound baby.


A lot of women are browbeaten into unnecessary c-sections with the threat of having a baby that is too big, which is problematic for a couple reasons.

1) Ultrasound estimations of fetal weight can be off by as much as 2lbs or more. At 35 weeks, I was told Tristan was 7.5 lbs and on track for being 9-10 lbs at birth. He was 8 lbs (admittedly some of this may be because I was absolutely ruthless about controlling my carb intake once the threat of gestational diabetes came up; I actually lost over 30 lbs [net loss] while pregnant.)

2) While the risk of shoulder dystocia DOES increase with a large baby, large babies are NOT the boogieman doctors make them out to be, and women ARE capable of birthing 10 (or more) lb babies vaginally, especially with a skilled practitioner who knows how to get a SD baby out without nerve damage. Doctors like to default to c-section when the baby may be big because if shoulder dystocia with resulting nerve damage does occur, they're often slapped with a malpractice lawsuit. Which is why I would have no problems with making women who DO choose to vaginally deliver a (estimated) large baby sign a waver of some sort. It might cut down on the practice of defensive medicine.

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In fact, I'm gonna go get pregnant right now, smoke 2 packs a day, drink a case of beer a day and eat nothing but ice cream while I sit my fat *** on the couch.


Don't forget to get an abortion at the last minute!
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#5 Jan 17 2010 at 4:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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Nadenu Delivers on Time wrote:
In fact, I'm gonna go get pregnant right now, smoke 2 packs a day, drink a case of beer a day and eat nothing but ice cream while I sit my fat *** on the couch.


Don't forget to get an abortion at the last minute!


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#6 Jan 17 2010 at 4:33 PM Rating: Good
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Doctors like to default to c-section when the baby may be big because if shoulder dystocia with resulting nerve damage does occur, they're often slapped with a malpractice lawsuit.

Since lawsuits have gotten out of hand, it's safer and cheaper to practice defensive medicine. If only someone, somewhere had thought to incorporate some tort reform into a health care bill.
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#7 Jan 17 2010 at 5:06 PM Rating: Good
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I think not drinking while pregnant should be more then just a guideline.

edit: Interestingly enough, there was a court case in Canada a while ago where child care officials tried to essentially force a women to stop drinking during her pregnancy. It went to the supreme court and an abortion case where the outcome was ruled that a fetus does not have the rights of a human was cited as common law that prevented anyone forcing the women to stop drinking, so she added to a third down syndrome kid to the two she already had.

Edited, Jan 17th 2010 5:49pm by Xsarus
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#8 Jan 17 2010 at 5:11 PM Rating: Good
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My aunt is about 3 months right now, and my mother caught her the other day still smoking. "Oh, I'm going to quit, I just haven't yet!".

I'm pretty sure she still drinks too, she's pretty bad about spending all her cash on booze and smokes, and not having any left to feed her current kid, let alone the one she has in her right now.

Good thing she doesn't have full custody of the current one, unfortunately the new one doesn't have a father, so there isn't anyone that will be able to take it from her and treat it correctly.
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#9 Jan 17 2010 at 5:28 PM Rating: Decent
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My aunt is about 3 months right now, and my mother caught her the other day still smoking. "Oh, I'm going to quit, I just haven't yet!"


It's been argued that the shock to the system from quitting by a moderate to heavy smoker is worse than simply cutting back.
#10 Jan 17 2010 at 7:27 PM Rating: Good
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Nadenu Delivers on Time wrote:
I can't stand all the crap that comes along with being pregnant. "Make sure you do this, NEVER do that, and always eat this!" It's like the human race wasn't able to survive until all these rules came about.
I empathize with doctors who ask women to follow certain guidelines to up their probability of delivering a healthier baby. It's their job and ideally, a woman should care enough about her own health and her child's enough to at least make an effort to follow them, otherwise why even bother to go visit a doctor?

That said, I'm amazed that they went to this extreme in this instance. It was definitely overkill.
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My aunt is about 3 months right now, and my mother caught her the other day still smoking. "Oh, I'm going to quit, I just haven't yet!"


It's been argued that the shock to the system from quitting by a moderate to heavy smoker is worse than simply cutting back.

I've heard that theory too, and seen it put successfully into practice.
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So are they going to support her too?
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#13 Jan 17 2010 at 8:18 PM Rating: Good
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Raolan wrote:
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My aunt is about 3 months right now, and my mother caught her the other day still smoking. "Oh, I'm going to quit, I just haven't yet!"


It's been argued that the shock to the system from quitting by a moderate to heavy smoker is worse than simply cutting back.


That's what my doctor told me. If you're comfortable and able to quit, then by all means quit. But if it's going to stress you out (and I mean seriously stress, not just annoy) then it's best to cut back.
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Nadenu Delivers on Time wrote:
I can't stand all the crap that comes along with being pregnant. "Make sure you do this, NEVER do that, and always eat this!" It's like the human race wasn't able to survive until all these rules came about.

Well sure, but with exceptionally high infant mortality rates.
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Allegory wrote:
Nadenu Delivers on Time wrote:
I can't stand all the crap that comes along with being pregnant. "Make sure you do this, NEVER do that, and always eat this!" It's like the human race wasn't able to survive until all these rules came about.

Well sure, but with exceptionally high infant mortality rates.

Compared to now-a-days, when we forcibly confine women to bed rest.

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Compared to now-a-days, when we forcibly confine women to bed rest.

With their sandwich-making ability impaired, what else are they going to do?
#18 Jan 18 2010 at 7:51 AM Rating: Good
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Allegory wrote:
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Compared to now-a-days, when we forcibly confine women to bed rest.

With their sandwich-making ability impaired, what else are they going to do?


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#19 Jan 18 2010 at 10:11 AM Rating: Excellent
"She felt people had stopped listening to her," said Abrams. "She became an incubator for the state and stopped being an adult woman who could make her own decisions. The court order was all about the fetus, not the mother's health. She had no rights."

Pretty much sums it up right there. I couldn't believe the stories about women being charged with murder for refusing a c-section. That's just completely and utterly asinine. I don't know when people in general decided that they had the right to disregard a mother's health in favor of an unborn child, or when they decided that simply because medicine could intervene in the natural order of things that it should be mandated, but society in general needs to take a step back and realize that we're still just animals, creatures of nature, and certain things should never be viewed from a purely scientific, religious or ethical perspective. Until such time that baby is a living breathing creature free of it's mother's womb, it should have absolutely no rights that are not extended directly to the mother.
#20 Jan 18 2010 at 10:32 AM Rating: Good
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I don't know when people in general decided that they had the right to disregard a mother's health in favor of an unborn child...


Funny, 'cause that's exactly how people felt in the middle ages. After women's lib, it got a little better, but some people seem to be steadily heading back into the "your baby is more important than you are, you're just a baby making machine" mentality.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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I don't know when people in general decided that they had the right to disregard a mother's health in favor of an unborn child...

Funny, 'cause that's exactly how people felt in the middle ages. After women's lib, it got a little better, but some people seem to be steadily heading back into the "your baby is more important than you are, you're just a baby making machine" mentality.

I don't think this is an accurate portrayal of the situation. Suggesting that a pregnant woman not smoke isn't disregarding the mother's health in favor of the child's, it's regarding both.

You might try to argue that all the suggestions put a psychological strain on the mother, but I have never heard of a situation where someone recommended a pregnant women engage in an activity that was directly and knowingly hazardous to her health for the sake of the baby (except in certain extreme situations).

Edited, Jan 18th 2010 11:55am by Allegory
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Allegory wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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I don't know when people in general decided that they had the right to disregard a mother's health in favor of an unborn child...

Funny, 'cause that's exactly how people felt in the middle ages. After women's lib, it got a little better, but some people seem to be steadily heading back into the "your baby is more important than you are, you're just a baby making machine" mentality.

I don't think this is an accurate portrayal of the situation. Suggesting that a pregnant woman not smoke isn't disregarding the mother's health in favor of the child's, it's regarding both.

You might try to argue that all the suggestions put a psychological strain on the mother, but I have never heard of a situation where someone recommended a pregnant women engage in an activity that was directly and knowingly hazardous to her health for the sake of the baby (except in certain extreme situations).

Edited, Jan 18th 2010 11:55am by Allegory


The article mentioned women who were prosecuted for murder for refusing a c-section that might have saved the fetus. Barring cases of complications which threaten maternal well-being (in other words, cases where c-section is performed purely for the well-being of the fetus or elective c-sections) c-section triples the maternal mortality rate.

The reference to "back in the middle ages" however, refers to the days when a c-section was 100% fatal for the mother. Doctrine used to be to save the baby even if it killed the mother.

However, the stuff that you quoted does misstate the case here. The question is one of the baby's well being versus the right of the mother to make her own decisions regarding her body.

Edited, Jan 18th 2010 10:01am by Ambrya
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#24 Jan 18 2010 at 12:16 PM Rating: Good
Allegory wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
BrownDuck wrote:
I don't know when people in general decided that they had the right to disregard a mother's health in favor of an unborn child...

Funny, 'cause that's exactly how people felt in the middle ages. After women's lib, it got a little better, but some people seem to be steadily heading back into the "your baby is more important than you are, you're just a baby making machine" mentality.

I don't think this is an accurate portrayal of the situation. Suggesting that a pregnant woman not smoke isn't disregarding the mother's health in favor of the child's, it's regarding both.

You might try to argue that all the suggestions put a psychological strain on the mother, but I have never heard of a situation where someone recommended a pregnant women engage in an activity that was directly and knowingly hazardous to her health for the sake of the baby (except in certain extreme situations).

Edited, Jan 18th 2010 11:55am by Allegory


True. I guess when I read BD's post that said "mother's health," I was thinking they disregard the mother in favor of an unborn child. I should've been more clear, my mistake.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
True. I guess when I read BD's post that said "mother's health," I was thinking they disregard the mother in favor of an unborn child. I should've been more clear, my mistake.

Too summarize what I had so painstakingly written before I confuse the posting tab with another very closable tab, my post was taking exception to the mundane situations that had been complained about in this thread. If you can't, as a pregnant mother, avoid engaging in activities you shouldn't be doing often even when not pregnant, then I find it difficulty to feel that your burden of public shame is a crippling crime against your human rights.

The case in the OP is a more extreme situation. I tend to favor the mother's side, but trying to drawn a line becomes tricky. What if the mother had been blatantly negligent in caring for herself and the hospital offered a significantly safer environment for both entities?
#26 Jan 18 2010 at 12:45 PM Rating: Excellent
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
True. I guess when I read BD's post that said "mother's health," I was thinking they disregard the mother in favor of an unborn child. I should've been more clear, my mistake.

Too summarize what I had so painstakingly written before I confuse the posting tab with another very closable tab, my post was taking exception to the mundane situations that had been complained about in this thread. If you can't, as a pregnant mother, avoid engaging in activities you shouldn't be doing often even when not pregnant, then I find it difficulty to feel that your burden of public shame is a crippling crime against your human rights.


So it's perfectly ok to take rights away from a woman because she's pregnant?

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The case in the OP is a more extreme situation. I tend to favor the mother's side, but trying to drawn a line becomes tricky. What if the mother had been blatantly negligent in caring for herself and the hospital offered a significantly safer environment for both entities?


What if? In my opinion, that's her right. Just because she has a bun in the oven, we should start dictating these things?

What if a man's wife is pregnant and he smokes like a chimney. Should we start monitoring how much he can smoke so as not to endanger the fetus with second hand (third hand...?) smoke? And once the kid is born, do we arrest him if he doesn't change his shirt after smoking a pack of cigarettes before he can pick his kid up? No, of course not.

But if it's a pregnant woman, well, then we have to start taking her rights away, 'cause the fetus is more important. That's *********
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