And I am kinda embarrassed about it. It is sexual in nature and I will try to keep this as PG-13 as possible. I don't really have anyone else to ask about this considering I don't want anyone else to know about this aspect of my life so asking a friend in person is out of the question. If this is inappropriate, I apologize and you can nuke the thread all to hell.
I have a boyfriend! We have known each other for about 6yrs. He is a friend of one of my ex's friends. We have hung out a couple of times before and he has come to a few of our parties at the old place. Things are going great except for one thing... I am heavily into kink in the bedroom. He has spent the night over here a couple of times and things were straight vanilla and that was okay, but now I feel a craving, a want, a need that's not getting fulfilled. We have only been together for a couple of months now and I am wondering if it is too soon to bring up my alternative lifestyle. Should I wait until he gets to know me a bit better first? I don't want to scare him off because he seems like a really nice guy and so far, we are really good together. So far, he hasn't given me any inclination that he might be into the heavier stuff. Of course, neither have I so he might be hiding himself just as I am hiding myself... But still! Should I wait? Or ease into it? Start with the little things and build up to the big things? Or just say the hell with it and jump in feet first? I don't remember dating being this complicated...
Okay... Here goes nothing...