ElneClare wrote:
gbaji wrote:
...to women being so lied to about abortion for generations that they think they're just having the equivalent of a cancer removed,....
What the ****! No woman I've known who ever thought about maybe having to abort a child ever thought of the fetus as just a bunch of cells the equivalent of cancer.
And yet, I can quote counter arguments to the "fetus is alive" argument that specifically make the claim that cancer cells are "alive" too. Heck. I believe that Joph himself once used teratomas in his counter argument.
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We all know the life inside us could be a human child and if the conditions were right we would love to have it and raise.
And yet, despite this, a very common argument in the abortion debate often includes some form of "it's not really a human life, or a life at all, or there's other things that are alive that we don't worry about killing or removing from our bodies". Within this context, it's pretty clear that these types of arguments exist as a means to make the abortion choice easier for women to make, right? Else, why make these arguments in the first place? The use of those types of arguments assumes that they will have some effect, thus we can safely assume that they *are* having some effect (or we should reject and stop using them). To what degree a woman's choice may be influenced by a barrage of this sort of argument within the abortion debate is unclear. But it's somewhat silly to insist that there's no effect at all.
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The problem is for the one person I know who did have one, is that she was 16, and her family was in no condition to help her raise a child at the time. Her mom was ill and could barely take care of her and her sister at the time as they were on welfare.
Uh huh. So why not give the child up for adoption? At some point, we kinda do have to accept that the degree to which one morally believes that an abortion is "wrong" is going to heavily influence that persons choice. So anything which diminishes the perceived "wrongness" of the choice will affect that choice. Has to IMO.
Jophiel wrote:
The conservative view about women is the same infantilizing they express about minorities. "Oh, they were tricked by the liberals/media/pop culture/Planned Parenthood/colleges/whatever into making those choices."
You were the one who linked to the articles as support that "even conservatives don't think we should punish women who have abortions". I was the one pointing out that their reasons for not wanting to punish women for having an abortion are different than those liberals might have. So... I'm not sure what your point is here.
Are we both in agreement that conservative's reasons for not wanting to punish women who have an abortion isn't because they think that abortion is fine and peachy (or a right even!)? Cause that's the point I was making, and I think you've just agreed with me.
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Well, either that or you say they're all just morons who want "Santa Claus" to give them free stuff. So I guess they're incapable of making their own rational decisions either way.
I think there's a huge range between being "incapable" of making rational decisions at all, and being "influenced" in your decision making. I would argue that the government creating a $5k tax credit for buying an electric car will influence the decision to buy an electric car. But that doesn't mean that person is incapable of making a rational decision. That's a pretty massive leap, isn't it?
Now, if it turned out that the person later regretted buying that electric car, we might even point to them being victimized by false advertising about said car, and the government's role in subsidizing it's purchase, so maybe we shouldn't be harsh on them for that choice. That doesn't means we're infantilizing them. It just means that we recognize that people do tend to be influenced by the world around them, and we need to take that influence into account when judging their actions. Again, I'm not sure why you insist on creating these all or nothing extreme arguments. Most things in the world exist in the middle. This is definitely one of them.
Edited, Apr 14th 2016 6:11pm by gbaji