Tonight, I get an invite to help form a new exp pt. I'm in Bastok, so I ghetto warp to Jeuno. The party is coming together really quickly, and almost as quickly as I accept the invite, we're all gathering together in Lower Jeuno.
I was about the 4th player to join the party, so not everyone had arrived in Jeuno yet. But while I'm doing the usual /bowing and /waving to the party members I see, I notice the name of one of the party members: Longko.
Hmmmm, that name sounds oddly familiar. But not in a good sense, like it was someone I recall with fondness. Then things start to click. He's a DRG. I /check him, and his gear is an add assortment of mostly low cost items. And his equip isn't even really geared toward DD. He has a Dodge Earring, a Drone Earring, a headband that gives him +evasion, and a Reraise Gorget (that's a neck piece that has "Reraise" as an enchantment, for those who aren't familiar with it). The last line in his bazaar comment is in chinese. He has no linkshell.
If the party has a gil seller as a member, the party would want to know, right? So I start off with some casual comments in party chat like, "Longko, why do you strike me as a gil seller?" He simply /laughed in response to that comment. No one else in the party seemed to care. I continued the conversation by asking if anyone else in the party thought he smelled of gil seller-ness as our WHM started to Teleport us to Holla.
Once we were in Holla, and riding Chocobos, the rest of the party made their intentions clear: as long as they got exp, they didn't care if they were partying with a gil seller. At that point, I told them I refused to help enable a gil merchant to reach a higher lvl, and disbanded.
Gil selling / gil buying is perhaps the biggest problem with our game. I've tried camping Stroper Chyme in Ordelles, only to be crowded by multiple gil merchant parties. I've tried farming in Oztroja, only to see myself surrounded by the {power} {ranger} Kofs. I've tried farming Dangruf Wadi, only to see a Magic Galka running around. I've had to compete with gil merchants camping mining points in Gusgen, and with gil merchants trying to hoard the Kuftal coffer. Anyone who has had these experiences also understands what damage these gil merchants are doing to the game.
Idea after idea has been posted about what kind of changes SE could make to stop gil merchants. But we, as the player community, also need to do whatever is within our power. And that includes refusing to party with gil merchants!
So I encourage my fellow Lakshmi-ites to do the same if they are ever in this position. Don't be so desparate to lvl that you're willing to drag along a gil seller with you. You might even have to endure some harrassment from the party you left, like I did tonight. Anyone who parties with a gil merchant has no right to later complain about their existance. Longko will probably continue to get parties regardless of the choice I made tonight. But at least this gil seller won't be on my conscience.