Barchiel, what did Chapstic do to you?
I have PTed with Chap quite often and have not found him to be a bad guy.
Kimber also helped a large group of players I was with make a Rank run up Delkfutt's Tower. I have found him to be helpful and courteous.
I think this is the danger of a thread about bashing people. I am sure someone will jump up and say, "Alekzander" is an asshat for doing this... But I think there would also be more than a few players that would comment on my helpfulness.
You catch people having bad day IRL and if it is your 1st time meeting them and they come across as rude or ill-tempered then you think "What an asshat" when in reality they are a great person.
One bad experience with someone does not get them on my blist. I chalk it up to a bad day for them. Two bad experiences and I have a pretty good idea of who they are.
As an example, I made a failed Prom-Holla run last night with a guy that my static had a run-in with a while ago. I found this guy to be a compotent and friendly player that I would PT with anytime.
The moral - give people the benefit of the doubt before you bash them or make an assumption about who they really are.