I started on shiva about a year ago, and joined an LS of people who knew each other IRL. Things got weird as some of us had less time to play because of college, relationships, etc. We didn't want to help each other anymore. Huge rifts opened up (I won't point fingers, it was everyone's fault).
Then I joined this Linkshell called TheMooks. There's so much energy zinging around with all of those people, I wanted to thank them however I could for making ffxi fun again when i was on the verge of quitting. And also for making me want to spend more time with those friends from whom I almost let myself be cut off.
So, if anyone had an experience similar to this, ultimately meeting a group of people or a single person that made it fun again, let them know. If not here, then in game, in person, how ever you please.
Take care all.