I can't go any further in this game, really. I know 50-60 is supposed to be slow, because everyone is doing AF quests and LB quests, farming for expensive equipment, etc. Everyone has to do all those things, and they all just cannot be soloed.
Most people seem to have quite a lot of friends by the time they reach these levels, or have long been part of a very good linkshell. They can get help.
Others are good at getting help, in knowing who and how to ask. They may not have a lot of friends but that doesn't stop them from spending only a little time pulling groups together for almost any quest or mission.
Either way, those are the type of people that make it in this game, the friendly types owed a lot of favors, the diplomatic types that can make things work.
I'm neither. I've played a quite a while, 30-40 RL days total in-game. But I don't know who my friends are, I'm inept spotting those who consider me one. Even when I finally do recognize one, I've a deep-set phobia about friends, can't shake off the feeling that the only reason anyone would claim to be my friend is to get favors from me. I'm terrified of losing a friend because I myself ask too may favors. The seems to always create an ackward buffer around me and society.
I'm not good at asking for help. I'm afraid of it, every time I think of asking I look at what I'm about to do and think "Oh, god...I sound like some kind of weakling leach" and either keep my mouth completely shut, or 'hint' to people that I need help...another thing I'm not good at.
I love this game, and a lot of the people in it. I'm good at playing my chosen job, and enjoy it.
But do I really have a future here? A loner doesn't get very far here, except by luck, and I do not count luck as one of my strong points either.