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Dude you might as well conitune to xp alone. its quite sad but mnk, along with sam,drg, and soon to be nin are very underappeicated. to realy even stand a chance getting a pty you should have Okotes, Tourney patas, (at that lv only things realy important) lv 40+ for melee to get ptys all comes down to who has the better eqipment, its realy a sad state of affairs this game is in but not realy much can be done. but the up side to being a mnk is when you get around 70ish and you start seriously xping on Skeletons >.> invites get very nice...but if you dont have time to sit in jeuno and seek pty 4+ hours you might as well give up mnk and become a pld (or a mage though galka mages are very expensive from the get go)
Ok, now that the negative bug bit someone, i have some things to say.
I am a WAR, and as a WAR, i am stuck with the same stigma you are (though it was probably easier before lvl 40 since i was a capable tank then). People dont realize the damage our jobs are capable of, and so we (MNK WAR SAM DRG DRK) dont get the first, or even the second or third invite.
I easily overcome this problem, by makeing my own parties. Im sure youve heard this before, but it is the answer to your problems. OF course if you find a static party, thern that is great, but if you dont, then you should learn to be a good party leader. To be a good party leader, you need to know where to camp ( http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/forum.html?forum=10&mid=1096838303937842675&num=95 ) and what makes a decent party setup. Please dont quit a job you enjoy, because soemone says youll have a hard time getting parties ><
As of lvl 50, there are some places you can go to do bone parties, and you should research those places, and find other monks willing to join you.
Good luck, if you have any questions on makeing parties, please feel free to post here, and ill do my best to help.